So for about a year now my ex has been dating this overly obnoxious woman. She calls me at all times of the night. Shes thrown a brick throw my windshield and egged my car. Shes posted so many nasty things about my 10 month old daughter and I on fb. Its absolutely ridiculous. Just a few days ago she called me to inform me that she couldnt wait to have my daughter in her arms and that if john (my ex ) had to be in my daughters life that she would be too. She said it was going to be a blood bath and that I was out of the picture. How the hell am I out of the picture, im avianas mom .!!!!
Ladies please talk to be before I commit a murder. This woman is absolutely beyond mentally unstable and I dont want her or him anywhere around my baby
Go to the authorities. What she is doing is illegal, she is terrorizing you, sounds like she's also stalking you.
Take everything she's said to you, print it out, keep any texts or records of phone calls, and go try to put a stop to her stupid antics.
I would be getting a restraining order on that nut job! I wouldn't want her near my kid either!
Is there a custody agreement set up?
File a restraining order on her. Pretty simple.
Also, if you can get a NCO(no contact order) or a restraining order, she won't be allowed near your child.
Get a lawyer, if you can afford one, and see what you can do about when your ex has visits with your LO, that the crazy new girl in his life is NOT allowed to be near your child, so his visits are with him, alone with your child.
She sounds unstable and dangerous!
I'd be getting screen shots of everything and turning it into the police. Her saying it'll be a blood bath?!? That's just disturbing and very threatening. And her doing those things to your car... Have you reported any of this?
Why is your ex with this woman if she is so mentally unstable??
Call the police or go down to the station to see what you can have done about this.
Document everything and contact authorities. You can easily file a no-contact order and she can't be around when your daughter is visiting her dad. I don't get why women (and some men) become definitive when there is a child from a previous relationship. Do they not realize they have to deal with the other parent? Being civil is so much easier. I loved BD's gf, then he had to go and dump her :? hopefully they get back together lol.
Get a restraining order for you AND your daughter.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Life is G♡♡d :</b>" Go to the authorities. What she is doing is illegal, she is terrorizing you, sounds like she's also stalking ... [snip!] ... she's said to you, print it out, keep any texts or records of phone calls, and go try to put a stop to her stupid antics."</blockquote>
<blockquote><b>Quoting .Colleen.:</b>" what did you do to warrant this? I'm sure there are 2 sides."</blockquote>
Quoting .Colleen.:" what did you do to warrant this? I'm sure there are 2 sides."
WOW! IDC what the f**k she did. How the f**k is that EVER warranted? That is just fucked up thinking.....
Just change your number, get TPO for you & the baby, and a custody arrangement with your BD where she can't be around.
If there is no court ordered custody agreement I would tell the BD flat out he is not seeing your daughter unless it's supervised, somewhere public, and without the crazy around. Sorry but no matter what you are her mom and you need to protect her and I would not want that type of woman around my child!