Quoting Sticks N Stones:" I'm not getting an abortion. My mind is made up on that part. I just don't know if I should tell him ... [snip!] ... because he has put a lot of stress on me and I can't deal with it..especially if I am pregnant because I could lose the baby.."
I wouldn't tell him anything hon, until you know for sure. No need to add the stress to your life when it may not be necessary. :)
The chances of you getting pregnant by pre-c*m are not very high. Have you missed your period? I'd wait till then. If it's too early, it will probably come out negative. Idk.
Do you want to have an abortion. You shouldn't 'have' to do anything, unless you agree on it. Good luck.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Cecily's Mama:</b>" Since when does somebody "have" to get an abortion? Jerk."</blockquote>
Exactly what I was thinking. Maybe you aren't and should be thankful you don't have to deal with him the next 18+ years.