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Feels like the first time Magnesium C, IL, United States 8499 posts
Aug 17th '13

Tmi, but whenever SO and I have sex, it feels like its my first time ever having sex. Like, it hurts when he goes in, regardless if I am wet or not. nyone else experience this? If so, did anything help?

user banned Due March 16; 18 kids; Springfield, Georgia 8473 posts
Aug 17th '13

Happens to me everytime unless I'm drunk :(



It usually takes a good 5-10 min to quit hurting.

☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
Aug 17th '13

No, the only time it feels uncomfortable is when I'm not really all the way in the mood. That's where lube comes in.

Rita West TTC since Jun 2016; 2 kids; Auckland, New Zealand 7167 posts
status Aug 17th '13

Its been like this for me since I lost my virginity lol. I got used to it after awhile. It's slightly better since having LO though :)

Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Colorado Springs, CO, United States 5844 posts
Aug 17th '13

All I could think of was "IT FEELS LIKE THE VERY FIRST TIME!!'



But no. Sorry.

Oncemore Suq Madiq, SH, Turkey 1899 posts
Aug 17th '13
Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" All I could think of was "IT FEELS LIKE THE VERY FIRST TIME!!' But no. Sorry."


Lol did you sing it out loud too?..lol



I did:oops:

Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Colorado Springs, CO, United States 5844 posts
Aug 17th '13
Quoting Oncemore:" Lol did you sing it out loud too?..lol I did:oops:"

:lol:

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
Aug 17th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:</b>" All I could think of was "IT FEELS LIKE THE VERY FIRST TIME!!' But no. Sorry."</blockquote>



Same!! :P

Stephalee 2 kids; Michigan 259 posts
Aug 17th '13
Quoting Sticks N Stones:" Tmi, but whenever SO and I have sex, it feels like its my first time ever having sex. Like, it hurts ... [snip!] ... sex. Like, it hurts when he goes in, regardless if I am wet or not. nyone else experience this? If so, did anything help?"


I was reading about this on the internet because sometimes while having sex I have pain and when I do there is nothing different and he is not hurting me in anyway, its random. They say that it is subconscious. Your body is expecting to get hurt and in order for it to prevent getting hurt your body gives you false pains. They actually say it is a pretty common thing... :cry:

Magnesium C, IL, United States 8499 posts
Aug 17th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Stephalee:</b>" I was reading about this on the internet because sometimes while having sex I have pain and when I do ... [snip!] ... in order for it to prevent getting hurt your body gives you false pains. They actually say it is a pretty common thing... :cry:"</blockquote>



It's not in my head..I actually bleed a little everytime..tell me that is it my head and I'll be calling you the crazy one! lol

Stephalee 2 kids; Michigan 259 posts
Aug 17th '13
Quoting Sticks N Stones:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Stephalee:</b>" I was reading about this on the internet because ... [snip!] ... It's not in my head..I actually bleed a little everytime..tell me that is it my head and I'll be calling you the crazy one! lol"


Well bleeding was not mentioned before lol, maybe you just have really good muscles down there LOL.... Atleast your not left loose lipped like some of us...LOL wow...

Magnesium C, IL, United States 8499 posts
Aug 18th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Stephalee:</b>" Well bleeding was not mentioned before lol, maybe you just have really good muscles down there LOL.... Atleast your not left loose lipped like some of us...LOL wow..."</blockquote>



Oh, yeah maybe I should have. Hahaa! I was thinking maybe its my hyman rehealing everytime..it only hurts where my hyman /use/ to be..