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.... Oncemore Suq Madiq, SH, Turkey 1899 posts
Aug 6th '13

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lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
Aug 6th '13

It takes forever to watch videos on my phone but II hate these oubliette game videos and pictures.

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
Aug 6th '13

I only watched 1/2 the video, but honestly it's the parents own fault. At 13 they should be keeping better tabs on her, they should be putting themselves on blast. I also think that humiliating her like that isn't going to solve anything except make her be more sneaky, because she's going to resent her parents for resorting to such harshness. They should be protecting her.

Ꭶwan♥Nemo Due September 24 (boy); 1 child; Kansas City, Missouri 7526 posts
Aug 6th '13

Seems to me she is a good girl that got caught trying to be bad. Sucks that she got royally embarrassed, but i'll doubt she'll ever do something like this again. Pretending to be older to talk to guys could be dangerous and thank God all she DID was talk.

Oncemore Suq Madiq, SH, Turkey 1899 posts
Aug 6th '13
Quoting .Colleen.:" I don't see how breaking down what little self esteem this kid has left teaches anything. I mean, if ... [snip!] ... built up her self esteem, she more than likely would not be a pregnant teen looking for love and acceptance in the wrong ways."


I agree about the breaking down of self esteem.



But I don't think it's the parents fault why she decided to lie.

Ꭶwan♥Nemo Due September 24 (boy); 1 child; Kansas City, Missouri 7526 posts
Aug 6th '13
Quoting .Colleen.:" I don't see how breaking down what little self esteem this kid has left teaches anything. I mean, if ... [snip!] ... built up her self esteem, she more than likely would not be a pregnant teen looking for love and acceptance in the wrong ways."


from what I watched, she isnt pregnant. She just pretended to be older and TOLD random guys shes been pregnant before, that she had a job and that she sucked p***s, but had never actually done all that. basically she was catfishing.

Oncemore Suq Madiq, SH, Turkey 1899 posts
Aug 6th '13
Quoting Ꭶwan♥Nem
Mother of One plus One 2 kids; Ware Shoals, South Carolina 4418 posts
Aug 6th '13

She isn't really pregnant. He has been telling people she was and that she was 16 and a bunch of lies. I don't think it's wrong. Now if she WAS pregnant I wouldn't agree.

user banned 17 kids; Boston, MA, United States 9473 posts
Aug 6th '13
Quoting Odafin Tutuola:" I only watched 1/2 the video, but honestly it's the parents own fault. At 13 they should be keeping better ... [snip!] ... her be more sneaky, because she's going to resent her parents for resorting to such harshness. They should be protecting her."


idk what part you got to but from the sounds of it, shes actually a good kid, not pregnant, the parents do keep tabs. they said she would be allowed to use FB if she asked but instead she went behind their back and made a fake bad ass identity.



idk, i kinda think she brought it on herself and she was being dangerous. idk if i would do that as a parent but i think its a good way to bring her back down to earth.

V ♥ Due August 26 (girl); 2 kids; ., TX, United States 15241 posts
status Aug 6th '13
Quoting Mother of One plus One:" She isn't really pregnant. He has been telling people she was and that she was 16 and a bunch of lies. I don't think it's wrong. Now if she WAS pregnant I wouldn't agree."


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I can see how public humiliation might work for the REALLY disrespectful kid, but for the most part I don't agree. You shouldn't shame your kid in behaving. You should teach them right from wrong, why what they did was wrong over and over until they get it. Idk..

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
Aug 6th '13
Quoting cunning cuniculi:" idk what part you got to but from the sounds of it, shes actually a good kid, not pregnant, the parents ... [snip!] ... and she was being dangerous. idk if i would do that as a parent but i think its a good way to bring her back down to earth. "


Even if she is a virgin and not pregnant, her desperation for that type of attention doesn't come from nowhere. A girl at that age, just going through puberty, probably has a lot of confusion about herself, maybe a poor body image among other things, she doesn't deserve to be put on the spot like that and embarrassed. Imagine how people at her school would react to that. All that's been accomplished is she's now a prime target for bullying, if she wasn't already.

.Jezebel. TTC since Dec 2015; 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 10053 posts
Aug 6th '13

This is really sad. I couldn't watch the whole thing. I feel bad that child got stuck with those parents.



They couldn't have done anything else to get their point across? :?

Live-Laugh-Love 3 kids; Kitchener, ON, Falkland Islands (Malvinas) 9454 posts
Aug 6th '13
Quoting Odafin Tutuola:" Even if she is a virgin and not pregnant, her desperation for that type of attention doesn't come from ... [snip!] ... her school would react to that. All that's been accomplished is she's now a prime target for bullying, if she wasn't already."


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Ꭶwan♥Nemo Due September 24 (boy); 1 child; Kansas City, Missouri 7526 posts
Aug 6th '13

Hmm I dont know. If I had did something like that, my parents probably would have did something along the same line. Probably not put it on the internet, but guarantee my extended family would have knew. I think the punishment wasnt all that bad but they shouldnt have uploaded it to youtube, that was overkill. Maybe record it, but delete it after it was over.



I never did stuff like that, because I knew my parents and what kind of punishments they gave. So knowing consequences, I avoided doing things or I took precautions to not get caught.

Oncemore Suq Madiq, SH, Turkey 1899 posts
Aug 6th '13
Quoting Spacetits:" I don't want to watch it. The kid is pregnant. She is already suffering the consequences of sex... I don't see what would be more upsetting than that."



She isn't pregnant, she is telling random guys that she is on Facebook. Apparently she is still a virgin just wanted to create a false "bad" identity.