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☆ Erica 1 child; Flat Rock, Michigan 1439 posts
Aug 5th '13
Quoting CrystalLight:" she doesnt need to vent to my husband thats not ok"


You sound very immature and insecure. It doesn't sound like she has done anything wrong and your husband has been very open with you. His daughter most likely comes before you, so the only thing I can suggest is GET USED TO IT.

Mrs.C+4.5 5 kids; 1 angel baby; Duncan, OK, United States 17714 posts
Aug 5th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting CrystalLight:</b>" she will get out of my husbands life"</blockquote>




Your marriage will not go very far. His kid will come before you always if he's a good guy. You sound like a jealous teenager. Why did you marry someone with a kid if you couldn't handle him talking to his ex. Do you think that she is going to steal him from you?

user banned Due March 16; 18 kids; Springfield, Georgia 8473 posts
Aug 5th '13

I think you're over reacting. They have a kid together & they're divorced. They have to talk about her & more than likely old hurt feelings will be brought to the surface, it's normal. I see nothing wrong with the picture timing, you should be happy to see them!



My ex husbands step daughter has spent the night at my house. It's shown all the kids how mature & respectful we can be. There's nothing wrong with being friends with an ex. My ex still happens to be one of my closest friends. It's never went too far. I think it's healthy for kids to see that.

nendhsiwjru 6 kids; Denver, Co, United States 37137 posts
Aug 5th '13
Quoting Laceyxo:" I don't think youre mature enough to handle the situation you got yourself into. Just because YOU are ... [snip!] ... and screw his other child. grow up a little, your kids will realize whats going on if you keep this up when theyre older!"


:!:

Hy'ska 2 kids; Nope, Az, United States 50865 posts
Aug 5th '13

:x I hate when they unsub from their own post

♥TwinsRock♥ 2 kids; Buffalo, New York 4471 posts
Aug 5th '13

OP seriously just deleted everything over this? Lmao

Hy'ska 2 kids; Nope, Az, United States 50865 posts
Aug 5th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:</b>" Deleted OP, changed screen name..."</blockquote>




This is sewious

☆ Erica 1 child; Flat Rock, Michigan 1439 posts
Aug 5th '13

Hissy fit. lol

nendhsiwjru 6 kids; Denver, Co, United States 37137 posts
Aug 5th '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" Deleted OP, changed screen name..."


That's standard behavior when BG doesn't agree with you...



you must have missed the memo.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
Aug 5th '13

OP, are you going to male a BG b***hes thread too :roll: :roll:

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
Aug 5th '13
Quoting Hy'ska:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:</b>" Deleted OP, changed screen name..."</blockquote> This is sewious"

Wonder Pets Wonder Pets, we're on our way.

K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
Aug 5th '13
Quoting CrystalLight:" i hope so but why wont he tell her i dont get it"


Probably just doesn't want any un-necessary drama, and he probably realizes that it's better to just let it ride. He is choosing his battles wisely.



I do totally understand where you're coming from..I know how ex's can be when there are kids involved, and my best advice to you is just to not let it bother you, and especially don't let her know that it bothers you.



And like someone else said at least she's not sending him naked pics of herself saying she still loves him.. that's the kind of crap I had to put up with at first. DH did put a stop to that, but when it came to pix of the kids and her throwing a pity party for herself in front of his family, he just blew it off like your DH does... I was like you, I always wanted him to tell her off, but now I realize why he just let it go so many times, and it really did work out for the best. Good luck to you <3

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
Aug 5th '13

You obviously shouldn't have gotten involved with so done who was previously married with a child from that previous marriage. I feel bad for your husband, his child, and the mother of that child.