<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Caydence's mommy 4/4/09:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... anything they can tell will be found in HER genes, not the grandfathers. He may be a carrier for things not passed on to her."</blockquote>
I get what your saying but at the same time his docs are telling her something else. And Ive her Bennys fathet is he best chance for answers but she is still hurt over that realtionship and rather get our father t do it so she does have to involve him. But at the same time I know the biggest part of her wanting our father to do this is so she and her children have a relationship with him. I cant blame her for that. I cant look at her and tell shes never going to have her fathervthere for her and for her kids. She openly admits to being damaged because of her daddy issues but she wants to try to fix them and try to have him in her life. I dont want or need thay with him because I had that because of my papal but if this is what she wants I suport that. For be its not about the tests its about he is at the same point in his life as she is where their sons are concerned and I dont see why he cant be there for her. I see women on here everyday supporting each other and sharing their stories to help each other and they are strangers to each other for the most part. Good or bad he is her father and I dont get why he wouldnt want to do the same thing for her.
do you not get that them testing him for anything won't help his grandson what part of that are you missing