Visitation SurvivingApril 18 kids; West Virginia 174 posts
Jul 28th '13

They gave my children's father phased in visits from 4 hour supervised visits leading up to every other weekend. Our final court hearing was in March. He has seen not seen them once and has not tried to, he is court order to contact me to set up the visitations or he forfeits.
We live three hours apart, the first two phases I have to drive all the way to him, the last two phases we meet half way.
What do you think is his reason for just not doing it? I am so anxiety ridden over this. Whether I can move on with my life and accept he complains he wants visitation but won't use it and is out of our lives, or that he will pop back up and do it sometime.. I would just love to understand his f'd up mind set where I basically have to do everything for him at this point and he still doesn't see them.
And he is allowed to call them once a day but only has called once and that was on the youngest birthday

basically venting but rreally stressed.. and just need some support..

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Jul 28th '13

Why do you care what his reason is? HE hasnt seen them. It is on HIM, not you. ON HIM. Just be glad that he doesnt want to be around.