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Showing my greedy ugly side I guess... GirlsHaveCOOTIES 4 kids; Bonnyville, AB, Canada 15354 posts
Jul 26th '13

Is it wrong of me to be counting down to my August 5th due date? I'm getting sadder and sadder as the day gets closer. I should be due in 10 days not 81 Don't get me wrong, I am soooooo thankful and so in love with Oliver already. I understand that if it weren't for that loss I wouldn't be growing this already amazing little man. I know I shouldn't let it get to me but I am having a hard time letting go of the what-ifs.. The bad and the good I guess, That baby could have had serious issues or possibly not have survived birth.



My first 2 losses were hard but not devastating like this one for some reason.. I feel like a complete jack ass right now.

Klaus 2 kids; Mississippi 27074 posts
Jul 26th '13

Its not wrong of you! It's perfectly okay to be excited about your current pregnancy but still grieve for your loss. *hugs*

user banned 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Indiana 75866 posts
Jul 26th '13
Quoting Klaus:" Its not wrong of you! It's perfectly okay to be excited about your current pregnancy but still grieve for your loss. *hugs*"


This.

GirlsHaveCOOTIES 4 kids; Bonnyville, AB, Canada 15354 posts
Jul 26th '13
Quoting Klaus:" Its not wrong of you! It's perfectly okay to be excited about your current pregnancy but still grieve for your loss. *hugs*"


I feel like right now i'm robbing this baby of the excitement because i'm down about the baby that 'should' have been born soon.. I feel pretty rotten about it.

GavinsMomJohnnysWife 2 kids; Texas 2789 posts
Jul 26th '13
Quoting Klaus:" Its not wrong of you! It's perfectly okay to be excited about your current pregnancy but still grieve for your loss. *hugs*"


:!::!: Good luck mama, I hope things get easier for you.

GirlsHaveCOOTIES 4 kids; Bonnyville, AB, Canada 15354 posts
Jul 26th '13
Quoting GavinsMomJohnnysWife:" :!::!: Good luck mama, I hope things get easier for you."


Thank you.. I just want the day to come and go right now.

Sock Lady 6 kids; 4 angel babies; Hell, ON, Canada 11758 posts
Jul 26th '13

I'm so sorry hun. *hugs*



But no, what you're feeling is not wrong. I'd say it is completely normal for you to be feeling this way, and is part of the grieving process.



I hope that things get easier for you!