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P E N I S ™ Due February 27; 34 kids; Washington 13761 posts
Jul 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vindictive:</b>" This is why I stopped posting on here very much. Everyone thinks they know everything, and that their opinions are f**king lined with gold. "</blockquote>




Exactly. Which was why I left for awhile after all that happened. I was jusy too on edge and took things too personally and I had a falling out with a group of girls here because I didnt agree with something one of them had posted. It was ridiculous. This site had changed a lot in the last 5 years.

Vindictive Due July 23; 50 kids; Switzerland 31001 posts
Jul 20th '13
Quoting P E N I S
P E N I S ™ Due February 27; 34 kids; Washington 13761 posts
Jul 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vindictive:</b>" No kidding. Too many judgemental b***hes "running" the place.. drove everyone away. The side bar used to go too fast to keep up with. Now look at it. Too much interweb bullying going on."</blockquote>




I remember. Youd post something and itd be off the sidebar within minutes.



Yeah way too much bullying going on and too many people thinking they are internet police.

The Master Due September 8; 2 kids; Perth, Australia 20023 posts
Jul 20th '13

I'm sorry but why does he have to woo you? If you want some tell him, men aren't mind readers.

Vindictive Due July 23; 50 kids; Switzerland 31001 posts
Jul 20th '13
Quoting TG3:" I'm sorry but why does he have to woo you? If you want some tell him, men aren't mind readers."


So because he isn't a mind reader, he shouldn't think up ways to make his girlfriend feel good/happy/pretty?

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Jul 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vindictive:</b>" So because he isn't a mind reader, he shouldn't think up ways to make his girlfriend feel good/happy/pretty? "</blockquote>




So essentially you're saying he's an a*****e for not doing it. Which I stated earlier, but when I do it I'm a judgemental b***h. Got it.



Though she has a point. If you want something, you need to verbalized it.

P E N I S ™ Due February 27; 34 kids; Washington 13761 posts
Jul 20th '13

Christ. People are taking the woo comment too literally.



So what if I want him to make me feel wanted at times?! EVERYONE wants to feel wanted by their SO.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Jul 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting P E N I S

P E N I S ™ Due February 27; 34 kids; Washington 13761 posts
Jul 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting P E N I S

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Jul 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting P E N I S

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Jul 22nd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Because of one incident? Damn girl, no one is perfect."</blockquote>




Because he doesn't respect her feelings and allows himself to do things that he doesn't allow her to do, which goes back to respect. And judging by her trust for him and faith in his ability to change, I highly doubt this is isolated.



All of that, aside from the originating issue that he does not make her feel wanted.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Jul 22nd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Obviously. Because according to you bad things happen to people and they should be able to magically ... [snip!] ... matters. It's also pretty readable as to why you always feel people should never make mistakes. You're a mess and you know it."</blockquote>




You're not very good at reading people. Mistakes are part of life, and this guy sounds like one of them. Pretending he's not is the problem.

Vindictive Due July 23; 50 kids; Switzerland 31001 posts
Jul 22nd '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Obviously. Because according to you bad things ... [snip!] ... good at reading people. Mistakes are part of life, and this guy sounds like one of them. Pretending he's not is the problem."


You're just a peach, aren't you?

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
Jul 22nd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vindictive:</b>" You're just a peach, aren't you?"</blockquote>




Are we genuinely attacking me for thinking this guy is an ass because she posted about him being an ass?

Oh_Dang101 Missouri 701 posts
Jul 23rd '13

Late arrival to this conversation. **GUY ALERT**



I don't know your full story or how he acts all around. Based on what you have said.. he must not have much respect for your feelings. That's my 2 cents. I'm sorry you are going through that though. Hope it all works out.