Quoting Rebekah Garden x3:" Ahh that makes more sense now. I wouldn't want him over either!"
Ya, if him and I were close it'd be totally different but were not. We have no relationship at all. Honestly, I don't even know if I love him.. I want to say I do, but I just honestly don't know :? I've thought long and hard about it. Like if he died tomorrow would I be sad? As fucked up as it may sound, I don't even know if I'd be sad or cry or anything. I just don't know.
Quoting BOB MARLEY
Quoting Amb ♥:
Have you suggested he see/talk to someone? Maybe you two could go together to see someone and work through the issues and maybe form a stronger relationship in the future?
Quoting Amb ♥:" That's exactly what I need to do. He needs to learn to respect my wishes. Thank you!"
Your welcome mama. I hope this gets better because it seems like such a tough situation to go through. It sounds like you really care for him despite his shortcomings but he really needs to learn to respect your wishes.
<blockquote><b>Quoting BOB MARLEY
Quoting Amb ♥:
That's such a hard place to be in. On one hand, I think it would be great for you two to actually talk about it because it wont ever be fixed if you don't...but at the same time, you should never really do/talk about anything you feel is uncomfortable. Plus, I can just tell from your posts that you DO care about him and his feelings, but this incident is what is pushing you back. For now, I would just set some boundaries like someone else said. If he can't call/text you then he doesn't need to come over at all and I wouldn't answer the door either.