He said it's up to me. Magnesium C, IL, United States 8499 posts
Jul 14th '13

Dating for 2 years, TTC for 11 months, unsuccessful pregnancies, and he tells me it's up to me if we should still be together.

That sounds like he has given up on us, does it not?

All because him and my LS couldn't get along. He gave me the ultimatum to choice my family or him.

What do I do..? :(

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18065 posts
Jul 14th '13

Never chose a man over your family. A real man would never make you chose

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
Jul 14th '13

I would never be with so done who would ask me to choose.

nendhsiwjru 6 kids; Denver, Co, United States 37137 posts
Jul 14th '13

I would be gone as soon as I was put in a position to choose between him and my family.

Mama Van D Due November 3; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Unity, Maine 2454 posts
Jul 14th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:</b>" Never chose a man over your family. A real man would never make you chose"</blockquote>

:!: exactly.

Caydence's mommy 4/4/09 1 child; 2 angel babies; Las Vegas, Nevada 8884 posts
Jul 14th '13

I firmly believe family should always come first. Also if he cared about you at all he would never ask you to make a choice like that.

Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
Jul 14th '13

what do you do? Say bye bye......if he has already given up and you don't have a will he handle raising a child?

J+B=Z&L ♡ 2 kids; Pensacola, Florida 5968 posts
Jul 14th '13

I agree with everyone else. Never pick a man over your family.

¡VinHaute! Kansas City, MO, United States 47544 posts
Jul 14th '13

Sounds like you lucked out, I'd be chuckin' the deuces.

Nicola. 2 kids; Manton, MI, United States 13426 posts
Jul 14th '13

If it were me, my response would have been, "You just made the choice for me." and I would be gone.

☮Hippie Jesus☮ 2 kids; West Virginia 10560 posts
Jul 14th '13

Yup, like everyone else said... Get out of there.

Magnesium C, IL, United States 8499 posts
Jul 26th '13

I said to him, "well, it sounds like you already made up my mind for me so I chose my family." and he was ok with it. Screw him!