Cast Your Vote:

    • Keep X as best man and pray he comes good -- Votes: 4
    • Politely tell X that he can't be best man -- Votes: 31
    • De-friend X completely -- Votes: 19
TheNuge 1 child; Pennsylvania 23152 posts
Jul 5th '13

Hmm. First of all, the guy he chose to be his best man sounds like an idiot and should NOT be given a position of honor at your wedding.
Second, I question your fiance's judgment to ask him in the first place. I hope he has learned and matured since that time.