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user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
Jun 22nd '13
Quoting The Original Mayhem.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" then I guess her mother deserves this eh"</blockquote> No one said that. :arrow: 'The f**k, girl?"


no, but calling the mother 'stupid' really? is that fair? no matter what mistake she made, she has lost her baby in one of the sickest ways possible

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Jun 22nd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" no, but calling the mother 'stupid' really? is that fair? no matter what mistake she made, she has lost her baby in one of the sickest ways possible"</blockquote>



Yeah, it was insensitive to say. But letting her child go off with some man she just met wasn't smart, was it? That's quite obvious. That doesn't mean that anyone thinks she deserved it, so don't try to turn this shit into a debate.

*~AngelEyes~* 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 11214 posts
Jun 22nd '13

That is so sad... and not a smart move on the mother. I wouldn't say she was stupid, but wasn't using her head when she let her daughter go off with him. I'm sure this is a lesson learned for her, and I pray that she gets through this okay. Losing your baby is absolutely horrible, especially in a way such as this. :-(

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
Jun 22nd '13
Quoting The Original Mayhem.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" no, but calling the mother 'stupid' ... [snip!] ... it? That's quite obvious. That soesnt mean that anyone thinks she deserved it, so don't try to turn this shit into a debate."


Im not trying to turn anything into a debate. I think its disgusting of mothers to sit around judging another mother when she just lost her child. There IS nothing to debate about that.

*Mary Moon* 1 child; New York 3606 posts
Jun 22nd '13

That's so sad. I hate hearing about stuff in Jacksonville. I'm from a small town so the thought of living there some day scares me. When we went to visit in 2010 some one was shot right at a Walmart. Can't remember if this was the Walmart or not. DHs parents live there and I love the area, just shell shock compared to this small town. Guess bad things happen everywhere. What was the mother thinking? My mind keeps saying, the mom must have known the dude...because half the time that's how it works. I mean you can't be shopping along and give some dude your kid to take to McDonald's? Doesn't make sense :(

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Jun 22nd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" Im not trying to turn anything into a debate. I think its disgusting of mothers to sit around judging another mother when she just lost her child. There IS nothing to debate about that. "</blockquote>




Well IMO you were putting words in people's mouths (er, fingertips?) And it was shitty. No one said she deserved it. But you seem to have responded as though they did. Which is dumb and somewhat confusing. But whatever.

Snotface 1 child; Storybrooke, ME, United States 34017 posts
Jun 22nd '13
Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" then I guess her mother deserves this eh"


I'm not saying her mother deserves this. No one deserves this. It is absolutely awful and I feel very sorry for the mother but i do think she is somewhat at fault as well.

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
Jun 22nd '13

I don't care what anyone says, that mother is dumb as rocks. I'd say she should be charged with child endangerment but she's already got the worst punishment possible.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
Jun 22nd '13
Quoting Jas ♥:" She is stupid. If he was a stranger, don't let your kid go with them :idea: I wouldn't even let my kids ... [snip!] ... brother :lol: No one is saying she deserved anything but HIGH FIVE for putting words in all of our mouths. You're so typical."


high five for compassion

Sarah +2 ♥ 2 kids; Hollywood, FL, United States 11222 posts
Jun 22nd '13
Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" He took advantage of the mother, and used his sick skills to gain her trust and steal her baby, Im sure ... [snip!] ... and steal her baby, Im sure raped her, and the killed her. Yet you ladies feel better calling a grieving mother 'stupid' SMH"


She is stupid. I'd never let my child go with someone I JUST met in a grocery store, would you?

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
Jun 22nd '13
Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:" She is stupid. I'd never let my child go with someone I JUST met in a grocery store, would you?"


lord no I wouldnt



but I also wouldnt bash a grieving mother

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
Jun 22nd '13
Quoting Jas ♥:" Why wouldn't you?"


Why would I not send my child off with a stranger? Are you kidding me?



Why would I?

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
Jun 22nd '13
Quoting Jas ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" Why would I not send my child off with a stranger? Are you kidding me? Why would I?"</blockquote> My point exactly."


I would hope that if I did, and I then lost my child forever.....other mothers would have the sense not to shame me for being wrong, as I would already be paying the ultimate price.



remember, every time you point a finger you have 3 pointing back at you.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
Jun 22nd '13
Quoting Jas ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" I would hope that if I did, and ... [snip!] ... dangerous. I can voice my opinions about it on a parenting board if I want. *shrugs* sorry that I am not as perfect as you."


Its not about being perfect, its about humanity and compassion.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
Jun 22nd '13
Quoting Jas ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" Its not about being perfect, its ... [snip!] ... talk to me about humanity and compassion lol. THAT'S hilarious. My career is based on compassion for those who deserve it."


you're really splitting hair to be right here eh?



Im in a career requiring compassion too....thats not an excuse NOT to be :roll: