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Amber ♡ 3 kids; Nunya, KS, United States 20463 posts
Jun 19th '13
Quoting Jas ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting mj's mommy ♥:</b>" I know that they're not treated equally, ... [snip!] ... their kid or not having any help from the father whatsoever. Its a touchy subject."</blockquote> Uh they don't. :idea:"


Ya, no shit.



I'm talking about if guys had the option to just sign their rights away.

Amber ♡ 3 kids; Nunya, KS, United States 20463 posts
Jun 19th '13
Quoting Jas ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Amber:</b>" Ya, no shit. I'm talking about if guys ... [snip!] ... out. Men just have to deal with whatever choice the woman makes. THAT was my point. Idk what the hell you're talking about."


Good lord.



You said that you think men should have the option to sign their rights away. Then I said that a women shouldn't have to choose in between getting rid of their kid (abortion/adoption) or not having any support from the father at all.

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
Jun 20th '13

What the f**k? That is really fucked up. I hope he divorces her when she finds out once they go to the doctor and he tells them they don't need fertility treatments but they need her to untie her tubes. :roll:



I also think it's ridiculous that people get "tapped' into having a kid. It's not that hard. It takes two to make a baby. If you don't want one, stop being stupid and get on birth control/ask him to wrap it and guys, stop believe her & wrap yourself.

~The Lunar Flower~ 2 kids; Alabama 6748 posts
Jun 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kallee's Momma!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... flow whenever he brought it up. If I was him and found out, the only thing I would be 'reversing' would be my marital status."</blockquote>



This chicks a bit of a nut isn't she? Lol going with the flow & not wanting to hurt someones feelings wouldn't make me feel obligated to have a child with them

~*~*~*~ ; 1 child; Biteme, ca, United States 1716 posts
Jun 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Now and Forever:</b>" What the f**k? That is really fucked up. I hope he divorces her when she finds out once they go to the ... [snip!] ... don't want one, stop being stupid and get on birth control/ask him to wrap it and guys, stop believe her & wrap yourself."</blockquote>




To a degree I agree about the last part, but I do believe in cases like my DH with his ex wife if two people are married and/or supposedly committed to each other they should be able to fully trust the other on issues like this.



I hope when he finds out he is still around for their DD. He seems like he would be, I hope he doesn't take it out on her by leaving.

~*~*~*~ ; 1 child; Biteme, ca, United States 1716 posts
Jun 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kallee's Momma!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~The ... [snip!] ... she? Lol going with the flow & not wanting to hurt someones feelings wouldn't make me feel obligated to have a child with them"</blockquote>




A bit is putting it mildly. She would have to have something wrong to have that kind of attitude towards the man she is supposed to love. Not to mention telling others, like her neighbor, myself, and who knows who else.

~The Lunar Flower~ 2 kids; Alabama 6748 posts
Jun 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kallee's Momma!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... towards the man she is supposed to love. Not to mention telling others, like her neighbor, myself, and who knows who else."</blockquote>



She sounds like she needs to be mentally evaluated. I wouldn't think it would be safe for her to have custody of her DD with the way she handles things & thinks. It just doesn't seem healthy

~*~*~*~ ; 1 child; Biteme, ca, United States 1716 posts
Jun 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kallee's Momma!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~The ... [snip!] ... think it would be safe for her to have custody of her DD with the way she handles things & thinks. It just doesn't seem healthy"</blockquote>




I agree she has some twisted ways of thinking.

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
Jun 21st '13
Quoting Kallee's Momma!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Now and Forever:</b>" What the f**k? That is really fucked up. ... [snip!] ... when he finds out he is still around for their DD. He seems like he would be, I hope he doesn't take it out on her by leaving."


True. I didn't think about the whole marriage thing regarding other people. When it comes to me though, I have been very careful when it comes to pregnancy. I do not want an "oopsie" child so I make sure I do everything possible to prevent that. It's not that I don't trust myself or my husband I'm just paranoid like that. I want no more children. At least not now.