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MommyToTwo♥ Due January 24; 17 kids; Oklahoma 44 posts
Jun 13th '13
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" too damn bad. he has obligations. maybe he'll come around. why did you break up? was it because of the 2nd baby?"


we broke up because , i was having mood swings ! and it got too us and we were fighting alot .

user banned 2 kids; Moses Lake, Washington 13508 posts
Jun 13th '13
Quoting MommyToTwo♥:" see, thats the issue.. i dont want too take him for child support .. :/ i just want him too be there "


Well you can't make him want you. :?

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
Jun 13th '13
Quoting MommyToTwo♥:" we broke up because , i was having mood swings ! and it got too us and we were fighting alot ."



so, maybe things can work out? give him space for now.

user banned 2 kids; Moses Lake, Washington 13508 posts
Jun 13th '13
Quoting MommyToTwo♥:" we broke up because , i was having mood swings ! and it got too us and we were fighting alot ."


Sounds like a super mature relationship.

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75118 posts
Jun 13th '13
Quoting MommyToTwo♥:" see, thats the issue.. i dont want too take him for child support .. :/ i just want him too be there "

Why not? He needs to help pay for the child he created. Can you support your LO alone?

♔ BαtMαɳ Due April 8; Gotham, DC, United States 89935 posts
status Jun 13th '13
Quoting MommyToTwo♥:" we broke up because , i was having mood swings ! and it got too us and we were fighting alot ."


Well then maybe you can try to work things out after the baby comes. Trying to force yourself on him now is only going to make things worse.

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
Jun 13th '13
Quoting MommyToTwo♥:" see, thats the issue.. i dont want too take him for child support .. :/ i just want him too be there "

But not having him pay CS isn't going to be the thing that makes him come back. There's no reason he should go on all la di da carefree with his life, but you have 2 babies to support all on your own. They need, if nothing else, the money he can send in. I'm sure you're already aware that kids cost money, a lot of money. He NEEDS to help with that.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
Jun 13th '13
Quoting Jillynne:" Sounds like a super mature relationship."


You are nothing but a b***h. :arrow::arrow:

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Jun 13th '13
Quoting Kimber-lily:" You got engaged at 13? That was a disaster waiting to happen."


:lol:



Sorry OP. That's a shitty situation. But plenty of mothers, some younger than you, become single parents and make it work. Just make sure you have an education, and turn to your family for support.
You're still a child, and I really think it would be stupid of you not to go after him for child support, unless you think you can raise two children and work full time, with the majority of your paycheck going to daycare.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
Jun 13th '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:" Well then maybe you can try to work things out after the baby comes. Trying to force yourself on him now is only going to make things worse."


Seriously. Don't pester him, OP.



Just decide if this is what you really want. Do you WANT this baby by yourself, if he doesn't come around? Are you able to support two kids? There is always abortion. You can't just live in a fantasy of "he's coming back, I want him to..." It doesn't always work like that. Reality is a b***h, sometimes.

Viv ♥ 3 kids; ., TX, United States 15349 posts
status Jun 13th '13
Quoting MommyToTwo♥:" see, thank you! these were the type of comments i was looking for! :) that means alot!"


why? Because she sugar coated things?
Time to wake up. This is real life and it's about to get harder for you.
Get a job, put him on child support.

♔ BαtMαɳ Due April 8; Gotham, DC, United States 89935 posts
status Jun 13th '13
Quoting Jillynne:" Sounds like a super mature relationship."


:roll:
I broke up with my SO during this pregnancy for the same f**king reason. So?

MommyToTwo♥ Due January 24; 17 kids; Oklahoma 44 posts
Jun 13th '13
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" You are nothing but a b***h. :arrow::arrow:"


THANK YOU!

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
Jun 13th '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:" :roll: I broke up with my SO during this pregnancy for the same f**king reason. So?"


So, YOU'RE IMMATURE, TOO



*stomps feet*

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Jun 13th '13
Quoting Vivian [♥]:" why? Because she sugar coated things? Time to wake up. This is real life and it's about to get harder for you. Get a job, put him on child support."


ding ding ding.



OP, just because you're a kid doesn't mean we're going to talk to you like one and make everything sound magical.