My beautiful friend. Hathor + A Due December 23 (girl); 16 kids; Spring, Texas 12834 posts
Jun 9th '13

I don't even know where to start. I feel numb and just angry.

She had such blue eyes and was kind to everyone. We both hated having shoe on, so we'd take them off and go to school in gypsy sanddals. One time we wanted dreads but couldn't find any wax so we put crayon wax in our hair!
She was a true hippie, a wonderful gardener, a poet and soon to be a mother. She loved Dawn so much, so so much. I just can't wrap my head that an amazing person is gone. Less then 24 hours ago she was making a baby sling now she gone.

I don't think I can go to the funeral, SO can't. I can't face her husband, how can you sit there when your wife is bleeding out, how are you okay about LYING to your wife about the Midwife! She didn't have a license! She was begging you to call for help but you said they would only drug you and take the baby. I understand wanting a natural approach but sometimes that isn't the best and medical intervention is the best.

Rest In Peace my beautiful Cherlyanne.

aℓm 4 kids; Ohio 824 posts
Jun 9th '13

I'm very sorry for your loss.

Cαtwomαn 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Gotham, DC, United States 15131 posts
Jun 9th '13

I'm so sorry for your loss. That's so tragic.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
Jun 9th '13

I am so, so sorry <3 That's horrible.

1inpink3inblue Due December 7 (boy); 3 kids; Switzerland 13391 posts
Jun 9th '13

I'm so sorry. That is tragic.

Rebekah Garden x3 Due October 5 (boy); 33 kids; Fall River, Massachusetts 5223 posts
Jun 9th '13

I am So sorry for your loss! Sad how her husband could do that! Did the baby survive?

JoAnna &hearts's Jett 2 kids; Midlothian, TX, United States 7992 posts
Jun 9th '13

I'm so sorry:( that's the saddest thing I've read in a long time:( did the baby survive?

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
Jun 9th '13

Im so sorry mama, your friend really seems like a beautiful person

As far as her funeral, its a way to show respect, and to say goodbye, I think you should go.
Death makes us angry and we want to find someone to blame, blaming him isnt going to change what happened. Find peace for her and her family.

My thoughts are with you.

mαkαnαni Hogwarts, .., United Kingdom 77303 posts
Jun 9th '13


I think you'd regret not going.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Jun 9th '13

That is so horrible! I am so sorry for your loss. I dont blame you for not wanting to face the husband. Id beat him for not doing better for his wife and child.

Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
Jun 9th '13

I'm so sorry for your loss. I understand you don't want to face her husband but it sounds like you really loved her and I think you would really regret it if you do not go.

Jake Wyler 1 child; 2 angel babies; New Jersey 1167 posts
Jun 9th '13

I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a friend is hard and the funeral is never easy, but it is important to attend. When I lost my best friend 7 years ago attending his wake and funeral gave me a sort of peace and closure, I was able to say my 'see you later.' If you ever need to talk feel free to message me. *Hugs* <3

Cat.Woman. 2 kids; Gotham City, PA, United States 8659 posts
Jun 9th '13

That broke my heart. I am so sorry for your loss. She is beautiful.

MomNextDoor 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8351 posts
Jun 9th '13

I'm so sorry. There is no worse pain than losing a friend over such a tragedy. :(

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
Jun 9th '13

That's so awful. I'm very sorry :(

You should go. If it's to much for you you can always leave early, but if you don't go you can't get that opportunity for closure back.