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Destinite 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Paradise, FL, United States 35130 posts
Jun 8th '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" If you insist on staying with someone who does absolutely zero for you, at least stop making it so easy ... [snip!] ... I wouldn't give him money at all, frankly. Less than 50 for 2 weeks? Come on. He needs to chip in. No freebies until he does. "


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taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49166 posts
Jun 8th '13

My husband has agreed to let me be a SAHM because i go to school full time but he expects me to do all the house work, but i cant complain he is making more then we need and i got my dads old house so all i pay is lot rent because its a modular home so my husband has changed a bit before we moved he didnt want to work he found a job down here were we moved and had to come down a week before we moved to start the job and he loves the work he is doing now...

Iyahna :^P 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Disneyland, CA, United States 17533 posts
Jun 8th '13

Sorry mama.I would not trust him with your debit.My brother in law is on parole and they kept pushing him to get a job.It was also one of the things that kept him on parole.Maybe you should talk to his parole officer on his lack of ambition getting a job.Especially since you are about to have your first child.Good luck and sorry you're going through this.




Nevermind.I just saw he got off in Nov.

sugarpie_hunnibunch Due December 7; Japan 83 posts
Jun 8th '13

You need a man a husband that is going to respect and support you in evedy aspect of your life. Kick his ass to the curb you don't need another child. Have a tLk with him and give him an ultimatum either he buckles down and put his big boy jeans on ; help you financially or he can't get his shit and move out.



Sorry on mobile. Hope it makes sense.

*Ay&Ryker's Mommy* Due January 14 (boy); 1 child; Kentucky 364 posts
Jun 8th '13

Thank you ladies! I just wanted to make sure that in no way can this be flipped around to where I'm being overly sensitive or irrational. I'm just exhausted I can't put up with this BS anymore.. I appreciate all of the positive feedback.

Destinite 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Paradise, FL, United States 35130 posts
Jun 8th '13
Quoting *Ayden's Momma *:" Thank you ladies! I just wanted to make sure that in no way can this be flipped around to where I'm being ... [snip!] ... sensitive or irrational. I'm just exhausted I can't put up with this BS anymore.. I appreciate all of the positive feedback."


Good luck!!