im not sure how much more of my husband i can take ive completely given up on our relationship i just cant take it nothing i do is good enough for him i stay at home 24/7 with out 8 month old baby who does nothing but cry all day and wakes up 3 or 4 times at night i do all i can to clean and its never clean enough. he works 40 plus hours a week and on his days off he always goes skate boarding and hes 28 years old and a couple of months ago when he didn't have a job he would spend every last penny on getting drunk and the house we live in is getting foreclosed. we have no idea when we have to leave and like i said we have no money put aside because he spends it all, i finally told him that he needs to decide if he wants his drinks or his family and he said he was going to stop drinking well he made it 3 weeks before he had another drink but he keeps telling me he only had one beer and because he only had 1 hes not an alcoholic i gave him hell and he swore no more drinks but hes been drinking again for the past 3 days but in his mind its ok because he doesn't spend more than 5$ and doesn't get drunk and he needs to relax so he can do whatever he wants but yet i ask nothing of him i give him all the freedom in the world hes never home. does anybody else think his thinking is very fucked up i keep telling him hes made his choice and he choice his drinks so i have started to put my own money aside so when me and my kids have to we have a place to go and he can find somewhere else
At what point are you going to hit rock bottom?
At what point are YOU going to realize your self worth?
You can't fix a problem that's not yours.
Can you go to rehab to fix someone else's addiction?
How many times are you going to try?