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Stfu Squirrel District of Columbia 8560 posts
May 30th '13
Quoting Love Wedge +2:" "


f**k that, then. If you feel pretty confident that he's just being an ass, and also confident that his mom is a nice person who didn't necessarily raise him to be abusive like that, AND if you aren't just taking their side because of your own personal issues with him, then by all means, enjoy your visit with them.



Seems like there may be a good reason why you have full custody, anyway. If you're legally 100% in charge, then someone other than you has decided that you are the more responsible parent and better equipped to make decisions regarding your child's life.



I wouldn't want to totally alienate him, only because I wouldn't want him to stop being part of the kid's life just to spite you. But if you aren't too worried about that, then go on with your plans.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
May 30th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it, too. I just wouldn't even say anything about it, just stick with your plans. If he's gonna be that much of a child, let him."</blockquote>




This. Screw him. Do what you want.

Love Wedge +2 TTC since Apr 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44775 posts
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Rain (aka Mama) 3 kids; Monroe, Georgia 6503 posts
May 30th '13

Honestly, I would just tell both of them that you're not getting involved. I wouldn't make plans to see her. I'd just say that she needs to discuss it with him (or all of you discuss it). But if she's in town, I wouldn't forbid her from seeing him because she's done absolutely nothing wrong and I'm sure Bub would love to know her.



I do agree with what the other mom said about not making a big deal overt it on the Fathers Day deal. It's stupid and pretty on his part, but it is "his"day.

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mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
May 31st '13

Umm if they have done nothing wrong to your little one then screw that! I can't stanf when parents use their children ughh...it's about your kids and if you want to go visit and they want to see their grand kid then go for it,

Love Wedge +2 TTC since Apr 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44775 posts
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mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
May 31st '13
Quoting Love Wedge +2:" Yeah.. He told me that he won't let his parents see Bub until his mom calls him and meets his "demands". ... [snip!] ... through court stuff, that I was using Bub to get what I wanted, because I was breastfeeding. This is his thought process..."


WTH!! and your AVI WTF LMAO..You do whats best for your child, not whats best for a grown ass man who is acting like a little shit head!

Rain (aka Mama) 3 kids; Monroe, Georgia 6503 posts
May 31st '13
Quoting Love Wedge +2:" Yeah.. He told me that he won't let his parents see Bub until his mom calls him and meets his "demands". ... [snip!] ... through court stuff, that I was using Bub to get what I wanted, because I was breastfeeding. This is his thought process..."


He actually said that? What a dimwit...



Screw what I said earlier then. He's pretty much admitted to just using it as a manipulation tactic, and that's completely ridiculous. If she wants to see him, let her. His little feud has nothing to do with you or Bub.

mom2andrew&carter 18 kids; Leesburg, Florida 2159 posts
Jun 1st '13

i can see both sides cause i have been there but by law his mom can go to court to get visitation with your son. they do have grandparents rights.i honestly dont care whos in the right and wrong in this situation you gotta think what is best for your son. he is the one who is in the middle in this situation

Love Wedge +2 TTC since Apr 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44775 posts
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