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Feeling ugly pp? MamaK[+2] 2 kids; IDK, SK, Canada 1539 posts
May 29th '13

Im 2 weeks 3days pp. i had sex 2 nights ago.. anyways today my body kinda hit me.. i feel ugly. theres not a place were i dont have stretch marks. i literally dont want to look at my boyfriendymore.. and he bothers me alot when he calls me beautiful..
am i the only one thats went through this?..

Tara plus 3! Due October 10 (girl); 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Missouri 2773 posts
May 29th '13

Well yeah your 2 weeks pp. Give yourself time to heal.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
May 29th '13

Sounds like you might have a bit of PPD.

MamaK[+2] 2 kids; IDK, SK, Canada 1539 posts
May 29th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P&W:</b>" Sounds like you might have a bit of PPD. "</blockquote>



Sigh..

I♥RYLEIGH Due March 3; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Windsor, Ontario 10504 posts
May 29th '13

2 weeks and you had sex!? Holy f**k I was NOT thinking about sex then. lol

MomNextDoor 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8351 posts
May 29th '13

I'm just now starting to be relatively okay with my PP body 3 months out. You're barely PP... it takes a minute for your uterus to shrink. If you're breastfeeding, it will shrink a lot faster.

MamaK[+2] 2 kids; IDK, SK, Canada 1539 posts
May 29th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I♥RYLEIGH:</b>" 2 weeks and you had sex!? Holy f**k I was NOT thinking about sex then. lol"</blockquote>




It did hurt, im not even gunna bother till past 6 weels lol..

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
May 29th '13
Quoting BennysMom[&ExpectingAgain:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P&W:</b>" Sounds like you might have a bit of PPD. "</blockquote> Sigh.."


I thought OP said 2 months PP.
What your feeling is common, you're still healing and your body is still going through a lot of changes. I was still bloated like crazy at 2 weeks PP. Stretch marks will fade and some of mine have faded right away.

I♥RYLEIGH Due March 3; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Windsor, Ontario 10504 posts
May 29th '13
Quoting BennysMom[&ExpectingAgain:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I♥RYLEIGH:</b>" 2 weeks and you had sex!? Holy f**k I ... [snip!] ... I was NOT thinking about sex then. lol"</blockquote> It did hurt, im not even gunna bother till past 6 weels lol.."


Hopefully it was protected!



Anyways that was OT. It takes a while to feel 'normal' again. I'm almost 8 wks PP and I'm feeling a little better about myself. Time heals everything (well, almost) mama!

MamaK[+2] 2 kids; IDK, SK, Canada 1539 posts
May 29th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P&W:</b>" I thought OP said 2 months PP. What your feeling is common, you're still healing and your body is still ... [snip!] ... lot of changes. I was still bloated like crazy at 2 weeks PP. Stretch marks will fade and some of mine have faded right away. "</blockquote>




I hope they fade a bit. its unreal where i have them

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
May 29th '13
Quoting BennysMom[&ExpectingAgain:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P&W:</b>" I thought OP said 2 months PP. What your ... [snip!] ... will fade and some of mine have faded right away. "</blockquote> I hope they fade a bit. its unreal where i have them"



remember that he tells you that you're beautiful because he believes you are and loves you.

MamaK[+2] 2 kids; IDK, SK, Canada 1539 posts
May 29th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" You should wait until your body heals before you have sex again. They recommend 6 weeks for a reason. ... [snip!] ... aren't any less attractive. Your stretch marks will fade and they are so common that no one even will even think about them. "</blockquote>




Yea it hurt alot, im not going to till past 6wks.

Tara plus 3! Due October 10 (girl); 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Missouri 2773 posts
May 29th '13

I felt really bad after I had my daughter 12 months ago. My body didn't shrink back as quick as my first did. Within a week after I had my son my body was pretty much normal again. After I had my daughter (c section) I had an awful pooch for probably close to a month. My strechies were so far up she was 9 lbs 4.7 oz. I think you need to calm down relax let your self heal. Go tanning in a couple weeks. I went tanning 2 weeks after I had my daughter it helped with the fading of my stretch marks and I just felt a lot better. And your SO thins your beautiful bc your are! You just had his baby there's nothing more beautiful than that! :)

MamaK[+2] 2 kids; IDK, SK, Canada 1539 posts
May 29th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tara plus 2.5:):</b>" I felt really bad after I had my daughter 12 months ago. My body didn't shrink back as quick as my first ... [snip!] ... a lot better. And your SO thins your beautiful bc your are! You just had his baby there's nothing more beautiful than that! :)"</blockquote>




Thanks mama.

Mrs.Wood+2 2 kids; Michigan 430 posts
May 31st '13

Im kinda going thru the same thing there are days when i feel SO SEXY! (bc i dont have that baby belly anymore). And days where i look at myself and feel huge. gotta love hormones :[ But no you are not alone!