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New and need advice on sex with husband Ninaleela Japan 2 posts
May 28th '13

New to this site and need some advice



My husband has started inserting his finger in my bum during sex. Just a small tip. We have been together 5 years.. he's never done this Is this normal?? Is this something he prob saw in a porno or something?

Cαtwomαn 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Gotham, DC, United States 15131 posts
May 28th '13

If you don't like it, tell him to stop.

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
May 28th '13

I dont know what you mean by normal. Plenty of people enjoy anal play/sex. If its not something you're comfortable with you should discuss that with him.

Bad Things Blacksburg, SC, United States 21346 posts
May 28th '13
Quoting Ninaleela:" New to this site and need some advice My husband has started inserting his finger in my bum during sex. ... [snip!] ... We have been together 5 years.. he's never done this Is this normal?? Is this something he prob saw in a porno or something?"


It's normal if you want it to be. If you don't like it, tell him to stop.

Momma in the making TTA since Jul 2008; Maine 96 posts
May 28th '13

Ask him to stop if you aren't enjoying it. He may just be trying to spice things up.

nothing to see Due August 21 (boy); 2 kids; Japan 602 posts
May 28th '13

his way of telling you he d like it too?



if you dont feel comfortable with it tell him how you feel about it

Elle&Cole⛄️ TTC since Oct 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 32449 posts
May 28th '13

I think it means he's gay

Bad Things Blacksburg, SC, United States 21346 posts
May 28th '13
Quoting Elliot Grace's Mama:" I think it means he's gay"


What?! lol

LA REINA™ New York, NY, United States 16690 posts
May 28th '13
Quoting Elliot Grace's Mama:" I think it means he's gay"


Stahhhp :lol:

Ninaleela Japan 2 posts
May 28th '13
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" It's normal if you want it to be. If you don't like it, tell him to stop. "


I meant normal as he's never done it before.. normal to just do this constantly now (everytime we have sex) when he never did before.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
May 28th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Elliot Grace's Mama:</b>" I think it means he's gay"</blockquote>



:) ;)

Elle&Cole⛄️ TTC since Oct 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 32449 posts
May 28th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting JessieLeeAnne:</b>" What?! lol"</blockquote>




Haaaaaahaaaaaa

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
May 28th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Elliot Grace's Mama:</b>" I think it means he's gay"</blockquote>




Lol . I like when mine does that. If you don't tell him.

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
May 28th '13
Quoting Ninaleela:" I meant normal as he's never done it before.. normal to just do this constantly now (everytime we have sex) when he never did before."

Do you like it? You should talk to him about this. Maybe its his way of telling you he is interested in anal. The longer im with my husband the more we try new things or get deeper into fantasies. I dont see anything odd about it but if you dont like it then you need to talk to him.

3Air Force Brats 3 kids; Portales, NM, United States 1538 posts
May 28th '13

Anal sex isnt for p***ies... *waits*