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is it cheating? meliaaa 2 kids; 2 angel babies; California 8333 posts
May 20th '13

What would you do if you got on the computer and found a chat window open, and saw a very sexual, detailed conversation between your SO and another woman?

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
May 20th '13

It's cheating.



You don't cross that line.



Your only sexual partner, verbal or physical, is your significant other.

vagina. 3 kids; Titz, No, Germany 30934 posts
May 20th '13

Uh yeah.



If the tables were turned would he consider it cheating? I bet.

Allissa Specht 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Essexville, Michigan 5736 posts
May 20th '13

cheating.

Nikki+2.5<3 Due February 28; 2 kids; Illinois 2901 posts
May 20th '13

I'd probably stab him in the eye with a fork.(joke)



But in all seriousness, I'd for sure leave. Because that's cheating.

Amy Packer 1 child; Battle Creek, Michigan 533 posts
May 20th '13

Imo that type of action is cheating..its not physical touching but its still doing a sexual thing with someone else and its not right. I would talk to my so see what he had to say but for me it would probably be the end of the relationship.

Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
May 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Daenerys:</b>" What would you do if you got on the computer and found a chat window open, and saw a very sexual, detailed conversation between your SO and another woman?"</blockquote>




Talk to him about it
Take a few days to think things through answer figure out what steps I would take. Leaving would definitely be considered.
Talk again before making a decision

Peyton'sMommy♥ 1 child; Germantown, OH, United States 16842 posts
May 20th '13

Flip shit. I would be super pissed.

Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
May 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting NikkiLC90:</b>" I'd probably stab him in the eye with a fork. But I'd for sure leave. Because that's cheating."</blockquote>




Jesus...0_0

Nikki+2.5<3 Due February 28; 2 kids; Illinois 2901 posts
May 20th '13
Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting NikkiLC90:</b>" I'd probably stab him in the eye with a fork. But I'd for sure leave. Because that's cheating."</blockquote> Jesus...0_0"

I was just trying to joke. I went through the exact same thing so I know how she's probably feeling.

kr.r 1 child; Kansas City, MO, United States 8737 posts
May 20th '13

There would be no discussion, no letting him try to explain himself or apologize. I'd be gone for good, and he knows that. Those who are unfaithful, in my opinion, do not deserve a second chance. Even if I stayed with him and eventually forgave his actions, I could never forget what was done; it would still linger there and over time, rip apart our relationship until we had nothing left.

White Chocolate Milk 1 child; Chelsea, Alabama 12303 posts
May 20th '13

IMO I think that is cheating. No there may have been no physical contact, but it could easily lead to that. And emotionally it is cheating.



And I would leave him.

Nikki+2.5<3 Due February 28; 2 kids; Illinois 2901 posts
May 20th '13
Quoting kr.r:" There would be no discussion, no letting him try to explain himself or apologize. I'd be gone for good, ... [snip!] ... never forget what was done; it would still linger there and over time, rip apart our relationship until we had nothing left."

:!::!::!:
All of this, for sure.

Mom2William&Michael 2 kids; 1 angel baby; New York 7600 posts
May 20th '13

That is cheating to me and I would leave. I am not a person who can forgive or forget and he knows that.

Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
May 20th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting NikkiLC90:</b>" I was just trying to joke. I went through the exact same thing so I know how she's probably feeling."</blockquote>




Haha I was like daaamn.
I've never stumbled upon a sex conversation but I have been cheated on