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~*~*~*~ ; 1 child; Biteme, ca, United States 1716 posts
May 15th '13

I certainly do not see sex as a 'duty' for either partner, even though sex is an important part of a healthy relationship. I feel like while you should make an effort to enjoy or at least go into sex and make it enjoyable, you should absolutley be able to say no any time. If someone doesn't want to ever have sex when the other does, the partner not wanting sex should be aware the relationship may end or have troubles. I am very sexual, but I would never have married my DH if he was the type to try to make me do anything (not just sex) any time I didn't want to.

tinana+2 Orlando, FL, Switzerland 39415 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting A❤T=P&W:" So, you'd have no issue with him screwing other people?"



They regularly have threesomes, so apparently not.

K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting Just Ames:" Is it also the wife's duty to turn a blind eye to infidelity and agree to threesomes?"


If you look at my previous comments in other threads you will see that I am aware that some of my actions and choices are not exactly biblical... and that I'm not exactly proud of everything that I do, nor does it jive with what the Bible tells me to do, but nevertheless I am a Christian and I believe the Bible, and I have only ONE GOD that can judge me, and YOU ARE NOT HIM!!!

Bad Things Blacksburg, SC, United States 21346 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting A❤T=P&W:" hypocrite is not name calling."


Thank you. lol.

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting kacti:" Biblically... yes. And I believe the Bible so... yes it's this wife's duty."


This.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting kacti:" If you look at my previous comments in other threads you will see that I am aware that some of my actions ... [snip!] ... but nevertheless I am a Christian and I believe the Bible, and I have only ONE GOD that can judge me, and YOU ARE NOT HIM!!!"


How can you say you believe the Bible if you are not willing to live those beliefs completely? That doesn't make sense to me. I believe the Bible, too, and I don't go around having threesomes with other people.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting kacti:" If you look at my previous comments in other threads you will see that I am aware that some of my actions ... [snip!] ... but nevertheless I am a Christian and I believe the Bible, and I have only ONE GOD that can judge me, and YOU ARE NOT HIM!!!"


So, you pick and choose when to follow the Bible, and use it your needs. Typical hypocrite.

Bad Things Blacksburg, SC, United States 21346 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting kacti:" If you look at my previous comments in other threads you will see that I am aware that some of my actions ... [snip!] ... but nevertheless I am a Christian and I believe the Bible, and I have only ONE GOD that can judge me, and YOU ARE NOT HIM!!!"


What does that mean then?



When someone believe in the Bible... does it mean that you live by it? Know it's a real book? Or just like the thought of it? Just wondering.

homes cool Due July 25; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 63165 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting kacti:" If you look at my previous comments in other threads you will see that I am aware that some of my actions ... [snip!] ... but nevertheless I am a Christian and I believe the Bible, and I have only ONE GOD that can judge me, and YOU ARE NOT HIM!!!"


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K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting PurpleBama582:" It doesn't say "submit to your husband sexually"...it says "Be in subjection to your husband." which ... [snip!] ... absolutely doesn't want to, why would he make his wife do something if she absolutely didn't want to at that moment in time. "


1 Corinthians :1-5



7 Now for the matters you wrote about:

tinana+2 Orlando, FL, Switzerland 39415 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting kacti:" If you look at my previous comments in other threads you will see that I am aware that some of my actions ... [snip!] ... but nevertheless I am a Christian and I believe the Bible, and I have only ONE GOD that can judge me, and YOU ARE NOT HIM!!!"


Well, I'm a Christian and all, but... your man has more than one "kitty" as you call it... so maybe you need more than one God? :lol:

K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting PurpleBama582:" How can you say you believe the Bible if you are not willing to live those beliefs completely? That ... [snip!] ... That doesn't make sense to me. I believe the Bible, too, and I don't go around having threesomes with other people. "


BECAUSE I DO BELIEVE THE BIBLE. JUST BECAUSE I AM IMPERFECT AND DO SOME THINGS THAT THE BIBLE CLEARLY DOES NOT APPROVE OF AND I AM WELL AWARE THE BIBLE DOES NOT APPROVE OF, DOESN'T MEAN THAT I CAN'T BELIEVE IT. AND ONCE AGAIN YOU ARE NOT MY GOD, SORRY BUT YOU DON'T GET TO JUDGE ME

Bad Things Blacksburg, SC, United States 21346 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting tinana+2:" Well, I'm a Christian and all, but... your man has more than one "kitty" as you call it... so maybe you need more than one God? :lol:"


It's okay because that was 4 years ago. She, now, just brings the "kitty" to him...but it is okay because this time she is involved. Yay!

homes cool Due July 25; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 63165 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting kacti:" BECAUSE I DO BELIEVE THE BIBLE. JUST BECAUSE I AM IMPERFECT AND DO SOME THINGS THAT THE BIBLE CLEARLY ... [snip!] ... NOT APPROVE OF, DOESN'T MEAN THAT I CAN'T BELIEVE IT. AND ONCE AGAIN YOU ARE NOT MY GOD, SORRY BUT YOU DON'T GET TO JUDGE ME"


Woah.



I'm a christian, I screw up a lot, God's grace covers it.....I get it, He rocks & I'm blown away all of the time by His love. But you come across very strong and judgmental sometimes & I'm not surprised people are taking this opportunity to point it out.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting kacti:" BECAUSE I DO BELIEVE THE BIBLE. JUST BECAUSE I AM IMPERFECT AND DO SOME THINGS THAT THE BIBLE CLEARLY ... [snip!] ... NOT APPROVE OF, DOESN'T MEAN THAT I CAN'T BELIEVE IT. AND ONCE AGAIN YOU ARE NOT MY GOD, SORRY BUT YOU DON'T GET TO JUDGE ME"


I'm not judging you, but if you truly wanted to call yourself a Christian, you would live according to Bible principles...ALL of them. If you continue to do what you are, knowing it is against what is written, then any repentance you claim to make is not genuine and your worship is seen as false. Knowing you are imperfect is one thing, and knowingly continuing to commit acts that are known to be abominable in the eyes of God is completely different. If you want to claim to be a Christian, you have to live it COMPLETELY. I would say that to ANYONE, not just you.