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user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
May 13th '13
Quoting .Colleen.:" you both sound like immature a*****es that should grow the f**k up and get off FB :D"

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Sorry, but I would have responded only 2 times... Once to correct her, and once to tell her to stop messaging me.

Flag Due May 1; 1 child; Newmarket, Ontario 2004 posts
May 13th '13
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Honest question. If some random stranger posted on a Facebook group that you were a liar, you were scamming ... [snip!] ... you were scamming people, etc....and you heard about it from friends and saw it for yourself........you would say nothing?"


Of course most people would say something. It seems to be how you said what you said, and what went on after that, that's the problem.



It's one thing to message and say "This isn't true, can you stop posting this?" And another to... well... you know.

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
May 13th '13
Quoting Flag:" Of course most people would say something. It seems to be how you said what you said, and what went ... [snip!] ... problem. It's one thing to message and say "This isn't true, can you stop posting this?" And another to... well... you know."

That and turning around to start accusing her of selling her food stamps, etc.

Mooches 16 kids; Japan 2076 posts
May 13th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" Honest question. If some random stranger posted on a Facebook group that you were a liar, you were scamming ... [snip!] ... you were scamming people, etc....and you heard about it from friends and saw it for yourself........you would say nothing?"</blockquote>




Probably not. I mean she doesn't know me if she is a stranger. So what she would be saying obviously isn't the truth so why cause a problem? People who know me know the kind of person I am and we would end up laugh about it.

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7911 posts
May 13th '13
Quoting Flag:" Of course most people would say something. It seems to be how you said what you said, and what went ... [snip!] ... problem. It's one thing to message and say "This isn't true, can you stop posting this?" And another to... well... you know."


That's the thing, though. I didn't say anything horrible to her. I didn't go off on her. But from what I can tell, she is the kind of woman who thinks that everyone should be fearful of her.



This was her first message to me.



"Haaaaaaahhaaaaaaaaahaaaaahaaaa



I have no f**king clue what your deal is with me and honestly i really dont give half a flying f**k. i said what i said. i'll do it again. o btw your already being investigated"

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20273 posts
May 13th '13
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" LOL, that's what I thought. I don't really think she's going to show up at my house and try to shoot ... [snip!] ... if I want to take it that far or not. I blocked her a while ago, but she continues to post statuses, try to google me, etc."


If you blocked her, how the hell do you know what her statuses are and if she is googling you or not?



How would you figure out if someone googles you or not anyways?

3 little monsters 3 kids; Olathe, Colorado 50990 posts
May 13th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" Not cursing like, "You're a p***e o* s**t m**********r c**t..." Cursing like, "You are pretty damn ignorant." or "This is f**king ridiculous.""</blockquote>




It still sounds like a lot of bickering back and forth, that would be the only reason why I would think the police might not do anything. Plus the fact that you instigated the confrontation. I mean if you really feel threatened than push for it but to me it sounds like a bunch of puffed up FB drama.

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7911 posts
May 13th '13
Quoting Juggernog-aholic:" If you blocked her, how the hell do you know what her statuses are and if she is googling you or not? How would you figure out if someone googles you or not anyways?"


My mother and next door neighbor are in the group she's in. She posted about how she googled for my photos and my neighbor saw her statuses.

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20273 posts
May 13th '13
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" My mother and next door neighbor are in the group she's in. She posted about how she googled for my photos and my neighbor saw her statuses."


I think you need to just ignore her. Tell them to stop telling you about what she is posting and ignore her.



You obviously did enough to piss her off. Let her get it out of her system and go on with your life.

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
May 13th '13
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" My mother and next door neighbor are in the group she's in. She posted about how she googled for my photos and my neighbor saw her statuses."

Why would she go through allllll this if there's no truth to it?

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7911 posts
May 13th '13
Quoting Rd.:" That and turning around to start accusing her of selling her food stamps, etc."


I didn't accuse her of anything. She saw on the group where people were threatening to report her. She messaged me with, "o btw i never tried to sell food stamps. you can go tell them they dont know what the f**k theyre talking about. wasnt me." and I replied with, "You know what you did. They took screenshots of what you said. If they report you, it's your own fault."



I didn't accuse anyone. She did try to sell them. She knows she did. Everyone on the group knows she did. She brought it up first. Did she expect me to reply with, "Oh. I'm so sorry. They must have got the wrong person!"



I didn't reply after that, except for, "You can leave me alone now. I've said what I needed." but....She sent about 5 messages in a matter of a minute, with her threats. And was blocked soon after that. After I blocked her, was when I was told about the statuses and etc.

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
May 13th '13
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" I didn't accuse her of anything. She saw on the group where people were threatening to report her. ... [snip!] ... minute, with her threats. And was blocked soon after that. After I blocked her, was when I was told about the statuses and etc."

I just don't know what to say... I would have not engaged this woman in conversation. If you're confident your parts of the conversation don't rile her up on purpose, then take it to the police. You would have a better case had you not responded so much...

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7911 posts
May 13th '13
Quoting Rd.:" Why would she go through allllll this if there's no truth to it?"


You tell me.



There's no way there could be truth to it. I've never asked anyone for donations. A girl from one of the sites recognized my name from the site and saw it on the local news interview and posted, asking if anyone had any spare things for a baby. I thanked her and everyone. A few people asked what we lost and brought me some diapers, bottles, clothes, and toys for my son. I haven't attempted to sale anything.



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That white circle is my apartment. My things were damaged by smoke and water. Which is why we were forced out and no longer live there. None of what she said was true.

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
May 13th '13
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" You tell me. There's no way there could be truth to it. I've never asked anyone for donations. A girl ... [snip!] ... were damaged by smoke and water. Which is why we were forced out and no longer live there. None of what she said was true."

I never said what she said was true... I was inquiring as to why she would create a whole scene if it's all a complete lie. My point is, if you know there's no truth, then why even argue with her? Makes everyone else wonder if she's a crackhead or maybe there's another side to the story...

J+B=Z&L ♡ 2 kids; Pensacola, Florida 5968 posts
May 13th '13

She sounds batshit crazy. I don't know if you have much of a case for anything though.