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user banned 4 kids; 00000, WE, Malta 68658 posts
May 12th '13

Well, there are lots of knowledgable been there done that ladies here. There's been good advice given to you in here.

teenscream Due December 24; Japan 37 posts
May 12th '13
Quoting BubbleLush:" I think you are a very positive young lady and that is going to get you far. You know how to stand up for yourself also good, do not let others make you doubt yourself.. or how you will be as a mom!"


Thanks always been a cheery, upbeat person and I will continue to be just that negativity, attitude bounces right off me or I laugh lol

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
May 12th '13
Quoting teenscream:" Thanks always been a cheery, upbeat person and I will continue to be just that negativity, attitude bounces right off me or I laugh lol"


Yes, you sound so cheery calling people a*****es.

BubbleLush Due August 20; 1 child; United Kingdom 512 posts
May 12th '13

What? if they were being a*****es, they were being a*****es.

teenscream Due December 24; Japan 37 posts
May 12th '13
Quoting PurpleBama582:" Yes, you sound so cheery calling people a*****es. "


sigh... yes because an upbeat person could not possibly spot a*****es when they see them



I can, and I did lol

BubbleLush Due August 20; 1 child; United Kingdom 512 posts
May 12th '13

don't argue just use the ignore button hun.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
May 12th '13
Quoting teenscream:" sigh... yes because an upbeat person could not possibly spot a*****es when they seem them I can, and I did lol"


I'm an upbeat person, but I don't call people a*****es for voicing their opinions or asking blunt questions. It's not like those people woke up today and decided "I'm going to see who I can piss off today," then came across OP's facebook post and said "Oooh...a pregnant 17 year old, let's see how crass I can be!" They were blunt, but I don't really think they were a*****es necessarily.

BubbleLush Due August 20; 1 child; United Kingdom 512 posts
May 12th '13

It was rude, did you block them?

teenscream Due December 24; Japan 37 posts
May 12th '13
Quoting BubbleLush:" It was rude, did you block them?"


Yes and got text messages saying sorry lol one of the women is TTC and is sooo nasty to people, glad I have an excuse to kick people off my page now :D



I was tired of reading her bitching all the time about things

BubbleLush Due August 20; 1 child; United Kingdom 512 posts
May 12th '13

And that is what I meant by jealous.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
May 12th '13
Quoting PurpleBama582:" Yep. I still look young, and I turned 31 last Monday...People have never given me a hard time because ... [snip!] ... someone asked me a question, if I felt it was inappropriate, I smiled or something but didn't answer. BTW, I LOVE your avi!"


Thanks!



Yeah me too! I look like like 15 - 21 and Im turning 26 in july! When I was pregnant with my youngest, I got asked more than a few times why I started young because I looked like I was 15. I was 23.

👣 Lovin'. 1 child; Lima, Ohio 319 posts
May 12th '13

I'm glad you're staying positive OP and not letting the rude comments get to you. I was pregnant at 17 also (would of been 18 when I gave birth) but I unfortunately miscarried.. I am now 18 and 23 weeks & one day pregnant :) I'm not going to act like I'm not excited just because I'm "young".. No, I didn't try to get pregnant per-say but I'm taking it as it is. Yes, it'll be hard but it's not the end of the world. I'm glad I never had to deal with the negative comments. *There is a difference in being helpful and attacking someone. It's all about how you word it.* Don't worry about what others have to say if they aren't being helpful.. Worry about you and your little one. Good luck to you! :)

kays`mumma Due December 2 (boy); 34 kids; Australia 441 posts
May 17th '13

Op your wasting your time with the negative people and you will come across many more!! I was 18 first bub and now 22 on no.3 obviously it wasn't that hard else I wouldn't have had two more :) (nearly)



Chin up, do your best age doesn't define a mother!



Half the negative people have probably never been in your situation, and yet they still feel the need to comment rubbish instead of moving along!



Btw i don't give a f**k about my grammar either!! For the bored ones who would like to pick on it!



Anyway...
Good luck & congratulations!! :)