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Why would he say this Mummy-2-3-Monsters 3 kids; Seven Hills, Australia 15734 posts
May 12th '13

Today was a lovely day. Nice breakfast, lunch and dinner. Then on the way home .... I don't know how we stumbled upon this gem of a conversation. But we were talking about this girl he knew when he was around 18-20 yo. He tells me this... "You're beautiful, but she was GORgeous, like drop dead GORgeous." Then I asked him why then is he with me if I'm not the whole package. "I guess I settled" .. I asked him why and then ... "I was getting old (he was only 26) and you were a cute small town young girl who didn't expect much" ....



I'm hurt. Really hurt.



I'm giving him the silent treatment.

homes cool Due July 25; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 63165 posts
May 12th '13

:( That's awful for him to say, I'm blown away. I'm so sorry.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
May 12th '13

what a douche!



sorry mama

[yo.] 1 child; Gayville, South Dakota 13371 posts
May 12th '13

Oh HELL no. I would be livid.

Mother of One plus One 2 kids; Ware Shoals, South Carolina 4418 posts
May 12th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting [yo.]:</b>" Oh HELL no. I would be livid."</blockquote>




WORD!

Mama Van D Due November 3; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Unity, Maine 2454 posts
May 12th '13

I would never speak to DH again if he said shit like that. What an a*****e!

☆Mrs. Mathers☆ 3 kids; Greenway, OH, United States 26551 posts
May 12th '13

i would of been balling my eyes out! some people REALLY need to THINK before they SPEAK!

Nichole Spurlock 2 kids; Cornelia, Georgia 429 posts
May 12th '13

What on earth?! Does he not have a brain to mouth filter?!

I♥RYLEIGH Due March 3; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Windsor, Ontario 10504 posts
May 12th '13

I would've punched him in the f**king face..... seriously. what a d**k. *insert foot in mouth*

Captain Obvious 2 kids; Havana, Cuba 25634 posts
May 12th '13

That is horrible...you don't deserve that :(

j0des(+2) 18 kids; Virginia 5095 posts
May 12th '13

I wouldnt be able to speak to him after that.



What a dudebag.

Mummy-2-3-Monsters 3 kids; Seven Hills, Australia 15734 posts
May 12th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nichole Spurlock:</b>" What on earth?! Does he not have a brain to mouth filter?!"</blockquote>




He saw how upset I was just a few minutes ago when he tried to cuddle me. Ha ha ha ha yeah right ...



He said he didn't mean to hurt my feelings and was just joking around. I told him what he told me. And he said he's an a*****e and didn't realise it was so mean. Said he actually didn't mean it.



I told him that's fine, but he needs to earn his forgiveness. And he can find out how to earn it. He is sleeping on the floor of the play room with the kids blankets.



See how he fixes this.



(I understand how he meant to only be joking, but he's such a f**king idiot that hasn't got a filter and that really completely and utterly hurt me)

Mummy-2-3-Monsters 3 kids; Seven Hills, Australia 15734 posts
May 12th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I♥RYLEIGH:</b>" I would've punched him in the f**king face..... seriously. what a d**k. *insert foot in mouth*"</blockquote>



He gave me his hand to smack and I smacked him in the head.. He said he didn't deserve that until I broke it down how he did deserve more.

Jax 3 kids; Sydney, NS, Australia 2888 posts
May 12th '13

kinda had the same thing happen. Except it was recently with a girl on his fb. Said she was gorgeous, beautiful, absolutely stunning, the perfect package.
And what am i......I have a very pretty face.

Lindefrau no, mo, Australia 1163 posts
May 12th '13

That is a horrible thing to hear especially on Mother's Day. I am sorry to hesr that and that you are feeling down.