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castaway 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 20306 posts
May 11th '13

I would not want my husband to be rubbing up on other women, but neither of us has been to a club since we were 22 Or so. Sort of juvenile if you ask me. (Unless you are that age)

the BEAST Wisconsin 15638 posts
May 11th '13

I think you're being over dramatic. My DH went out a few weeks before he ETSed, mostly as a "last hurrah" with his friends. I had NO issue with it as I knew it was the last time he'd see most of them and they were family to him. Even if he'd decided to go to a strip club, I trust HIM and know he's coming home to ME not with some skanky girl he may or may not meet.



As far as tomorrow being Mother's Day, I understand you wanting some special treatment but maybe you should have talked with him before he went out and told him what you wanted and that you would appreciate it if he was home at a decent time. I've got 2 kids and am 39w with #3 and my DH will be at work from 4a-9:45a. NO way my kids'll let me sleep in (I'll be lucky for 6:30!) and I'll have to help my 7 year old make me breakfast (because he REALLY wants to do something nice for me). You've got to look at the positives instead of whining that things aren't going to happen how you want

Lin Brown TTC since May 2015; 2 kids; Tunnel Hill, Georgia 1941 posts
May 11th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 14 weeks with #3!:</b>" That was never said. I said I trust my DH, then I said I dont want other women touching MY husband. ... [snip!] ... respect that. If you dont mind other women touching your husband, fine, thats your thing. I on the other hand mind VERY much. "</blockquote>




of course i mind other women touching my husband, but he wouldn't ever let them come close to that point so i wouldn't ever have an issue with him going alone to a bar or club, he just chooses not to even if i beg him to go

Mama Rice 34 kids; North Las Vegas, Nevada 11987 posts
May 11th '13
Quoting Lin Brown:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 14 weeks with #3!:</b>" That was never said. I said I trust ... [snip!] ... point so i wouldn't ever have an issue with him going alone to a bar or club, he just chooses not to even if i beg him to go"


I know, right. I have been hit on by men in a bar and I politely told them I was married and not interested. Same with the married men in our group. I love how some people think women randomly grind on a man and he is powerless to say no. If a woman or man is inappropriately coming onto you then you tell them no. Generally speaking, if it continues it is being forced upon you or you are allowing it to happen.