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Moving in. taylllorrr Due August 12 (boy); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Cheyenne, WY, United States 1227 posts
May 11th '13

Lately SO has been talking about moving in together, I personally dont want to move in together until we've been dating at least 9 months( it'll be 9 months next month.)
When did you and you're SO move in together what was the outcome?

Jenny&Boopy Due July 29 (twins); 3 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 9737 posts
May 11th '13

We moved in together after dating for like 3 weeks :lol: that was a little over two years ago and we're still happy and together. We have an 8 month old now too :).

babe_666_ 5 kids; 1 angel baby; Adelaide, Australia 21446 posts
May 11th '13

I started staying over all the time after a month and moved in officially after 2... here we are 8 1/2 years later - pregnant with our third baby...

Samibee 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Florida 5706 posts
May 11th '13

SO moved in with me like 3 weeks into our relationship. We have been together 4 1/2 years now and have two children.

Mouse & Chicklet TTC since Sep 2015; 4 kids; 5 angel babies; Barrie, Ontario 620 posts
May 11th '13

We were dating 35 days when he moved in. The outcome has been great. I got pregnant right away so I honestly think it was the right choice. We've been together now for over two years.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; f**king, Austria 36337 posts
May 11th '13

We started living together almost instantly. We have been together every single day since. LOL That will be six years in July.

taylllorrr Due August 12 (boy); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Cheyenne, WY, United States 1227 posts
May 11th '13

Did you have children before moving in together? I think thats why I am so hesitant, I have a 3 yr old daughter.

Always♥Faithful 2 kids; CHERRY POINT, North Carolina 21738 posts
May 11th '13

After we got married after 7 months of being together. Lol. I moved 14 hours away from home after he found us a place where he was stationed. We are going on 4 years of marriage, and very happy, expecting our second LO.

Live-Laugh-Love TTC since Aug 2017; 3 kids; Kitchener, ON, Virgin Islands 9619 posts
May 11th '13

We moved in together after like 2 years lol we've been together for 6 years on may 29th.

Vitameatavegamin 19 kids; League City, Texas 5829 posts
May 11th '13

We moved in together after 2 months with some roommates. We now have our own place together and have been together almost 4 years now with 2 kids(3 if you count our "angel baby") and married this past February. So I'd say it worked out well so far :)

Live-Laugh-Love TTC since Aug 2017; 3 kids; Kitchener, ON, Virgin Islands 9619 posts
May 11th '13
Quoting taylllorrr:" Did you have children before moving in together? I think thats why I am so hesitant, I have a 3 yr old daughter."


No we had our first son about a year later.

MunchkinWrangler 4 kids; Rīga, Latvia 47032 posts
May 11th '13

Well my first thought was... why does there need to be a time frame for when he can move in? Why 9 months? What makes that amount of time significant.
It could take less time or much much more time to decide whether or not you are comfortable moving in with a person. You have to feel like your relationship will last and that you plan to be with this person long-term. You can't set a certain amount of time to figure that out.

b.r.i.t.t.a.n.y. 1 child; Washington 433 posts
May 11th '13

He moved in with my family when I was 19, he was 22. Then I got pregnant with DS and we moved into his dad's since they had the extra space. That was 2 years ago. Now we live on our own. Our DS is 3. And we will have been together for 8 years on July 6th. No ring yet! :wink: lol

Jenny&Boopy Due July 29 (twins); 3 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 9737 posts
May 11th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting taylllorrr:</b>" Did you have children before moving in together? I think thats why I am so hesitant, I have a 3 yr old daughter."</blockquote>




I have 7 year old son, he was 5 when we moved in together. I just knew he was right for me.

user banned -, -, United Kingdom 75061 posts
May 11th '13

We met in June, moved in together in December! :)