Everything happens for a reason rachel_TJ Japan 1 posts
May 8th '13

February 22, 2012 was one of the worst days of my life i misscarried a little boy when i was 15 weeks pregnant.. so many people told me that everything happens for a reason and i have always believed that myself but at that time it was really hard to understand why it was happening to me..6 months later on aug 14th which was my due date for my little boy i found out that i was pregnant again..who knew what i thought was going to be a very hard day to get through turned out to be a wonderful day.after many doctors appts specialist appts, ulterasounds, progestrone shots and suppositories, a cerclage, 18 wks of bedrest..i delivered a healthy little boy on april 11, 2013 named jayce..i still think about both my angel babies alot but what helps me get through it is knowing my 2 boys have extra angels watching over them..jayce is my reason

user banned 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Indiana 75866 posts
May 8th '13

I'm sorry for the loss of your first son, but congrats on your miracle.

The saying "everything happens for a reason" has never made sense to me. I hated hearing it when I was going through my miscarriages. It made me angry. 'What reason is there for a life to end before it even begins?' was my thought. I'm glad you were able to find peace with it, though.

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8816 posts
May 8th '13

Thank you for sharing your experience. That is a beautiful reminder that life is gift :)