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Proud of her, but sad for the boy Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56012 posts
May 3rd '13

Normally, all the kids in our neighborhood get along alright. Very few fights



We play everyday with the 3 and 2 year old who live next door



Today the 3 year old would not stop hitting and pushing Cora. And Cora is so sensitive that she was quite upset.



So the mom told the kid to knock it off a few times, gave him a time out, and took his toy away.



He still kept hitting/pushing Cora



The mother grabbed the boy and said to Cora "Here hunny, hit him back"



I was SHOCKED and appalled and going WTF?



my kid piped up before I could and said "It's not nice to hit, even if he hit me first" and she walked away



Such a proud mommy moment, but I wish it didn't have to happen at all.

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20273 posts
May 3rd '13

That is awesome that she told his mom that!

* Clairebear * 1 child; 1 angel baby; Ireland 5061 posts
May 3rd '13

When we were kids we were told if someone hit us then we should hit them back. So you can imagine the scrapes and fights we got into! It seemed to be an Irish mothers thing back then but it's all different now.

* MRS KING * 2 kids; Whitesboro, Oklahoma 1563 posts
May 3rd '13

Thats difficult for me, idk what id do in that situation. I think that if there wasnt a mother around id want my daughter to stand up for hetself, especially against a boy. But theres always that fine line that could be crossed and the victim becomes a bully. But it certainly sounds like your daughter is a sweetheart. :-)

FanGirl 2 kids; Tennessee 24377 posts
May 3rd '13
Quoting Clairebear & Abbey G :):" When we were kids we were told if someone hit us then we should hit them back. So you can imagine the ... [snip!] ... can imagine the scrapes and fights we got into! It seemed to be an Irish mothers thing back then but it's all different now."

:!::!::!:



but i do love your DD's response! so much class for a lil girl!

Sarah +2 ♥ 2 kids; Hollywood, FL, United States 11222 posts
May 3rd '13

I love your DD's response. That's really sweet.



Personally, I'd want my DD to stick up for herself, especially if she's being picked on by a boy.



As a child I was told "if someone hits you first then you can defend yourself and hit them back".

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20983 posts
May 3rd '13

We were raised that if someone hits you, you hit them back and defend yourself.

Ꭶwan♥Nemo Due September 24 (boy); 1 child; Kansas City, Missouri 7526 posts
May 3rd '13

Awww, thats was cute of her. I was always told if I may get hit first, just make sure I threw the last punch lol.

hi puddin 4 kids; Lawrence, Kansas 2118 posts
May 3rd '13

i tell my kids that. I was told that

☆Mrs. Mathers☆ 3 kids; Greenway, OH, United States 26545 posts
status May 3rd '13
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" We were raised that if someone hits you, you hit them back and defend yourself."

:!:




i do love your DD's response though lol

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56012 posts
May 3rd '13

I tell Cora that if anyone hurts her or makes her feel uncomfortable, she needs to get me or an adult to handle it.



I don't want her to punch back, especially a non verbal 3 year old who likely thought he was playing

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49366 posts
May 3rd '13
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" I tell Cora that if anyone hurts her or makes her feel uncomfortable, she needs to get me or an adult ... [snip!] ... an adult to handle it. I don't want her to punch back, especially a non verbal 3 year old who likely thought he was playing"


In that case totally agree with you. But I'll be damned if my kid is the one at school always getting beat up on. I went through that at school getting tortured and not allowed to stand up for myself. I don't want my kids feeling weak and helpless like that. I think if it is a continual thing that's been addressed already I'd be proud of my kid for finally clocking the little bastards.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37260 posts
May 3rd '13

YAY for Cora! So proud of her!