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0_o 3 kids; 1 angel baby; ,, ,, United States 17019 posts
May 3rd '13

lmfao at the c section comment.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5419 posts
May 3rd '13

You don't have to wait 6 weeks at all, that is complete nonsense. I waited 4 weeks after DS. In the UK though you have a Midwife visit you every day for 10 days after the birth then a Health Visitor after that. Both are fully qualified to check you out in all ways. I wasn't given the all clear until just after 3 weeks but I had torn and had stitches so I needed time to heal, I gave myself an extra week though so waited until 4.



I think people are getting confused with the recommendation of not having sex until you are given the all clear by a medical professional with a specific number. Do you guys not get checked at ALL until 6 weeks then? That's terrible if true and probably why people are getting stuck on this 6 week thing.



If you don't get checked by a medical professional at all before 6 weeks I don't recommend having sex before then, wait until a medical professional checks you over and is sure you are fully healed.

GavinsMomJohnnysWife 2 kids; Texas 2789 posts
May 3rd '13
Quoting Supafly★:" Agree but.....what are she supposed to do with a vibrator? lol. Can't stick that up there either. "


That's not usually where it goes...

mrs.bedell 2 kids; Grand Forks, North Dakota 763 posts
May 3rd '13

6 weeks I was bad last time and only lasted 11 days though hurt like a beyotch lol

Rachelbabyxx 1 child; Nottingham, United Kingdom 405 posts
May 3rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Simply Mom ⚓:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rachelbabyxx:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Simply ... [snip!] ... then of course but still soar. just wait the time the full six weeks and take it slow you will be back to normal in no time :)"</blockquote>




I suppose another week won't hurt we've waited this long lol

Rachelbabyxx 1 child; Nottingham, United Kingdom 405 posts
May 3rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rebekah Garden x3:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rachelbabyxx:</b>" does you vagina go back to normal? I'm sure ... [snip!] ... 4-6 weeks"</blockquote> A lot if people say it feels like losing their virginity again! Like it is that tight again!"</blockquote>




omg really? I hope so haha

tinana+2 2 kids; Jesus, FC, Virgin Islands 38214 posts
May 3rd '13
Quoting Simply Mom ⚓:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jo Jo's mommy (14wks):</b>" they say wait six weeks, but with ... [snip!] ... waited four days but only bc dh was leaving with army.. "</blockquote> you know you can severely hurt yourself right?"


:!: and infect. Nothing more special than being in the hospital and needing someone else to take care of to take care of your newborn. Explain that one... "well I was horny and didn't listen, so.."

bye felicia 6 kids; china, ny, United States 2522 posts
May 3rd '13
Quoting Supafly★:" It's sad that your DH had not enough respect for you and your body to wait. That must have been a hot bloody mess


first off, it was me who wanted to f**k my husband ok, and its patetic u sit at the computer and bash other peoples dh's when u have no idea who the f**k they are,or if they respect their wives..get off ur ass, put the ho hos down, and do somthing besides bash ppl

[JadeLee] 1 child; Minnesota 12190 posts
May 3rd '13
Quoting Iggy Azalea:" You don't have to wait 6 weeks at all, that is complete nonsense. I waited 4 weeks after DS. In the UK ... [snip!] ... I don't recommend having sex before then, wait until a medical professional checks you over and is sure you are fully healed."

That is how it is over here! You don't get checked out until 6 weeks.
I have heard of women getting the OK after 4 weeks but that is pretty rare in the US.



OP: If you feel up to it use a condom for sure! If you were told 4-6 weeks then you are fine! Just know that it may not feel the same and it may hurt. I had complications so I waited until 8 weeks and even then it hurt like hell, and it didn't feel the same for a few weeks.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; f**king, Austria 36337 posts
May 3rd '13
Quoting Jo Jo's mommy (14wks):" first off, it was me who wanted to f**k my husband ok, and its patetic u sit at the computer and bash ... [snip!] ... who the f**k they are,or if they respect their wives..get off ur ass, put the ho hos down, and do somthing besides bash ppl"

hypocrite much? LOL

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
May 3rd '13

I waited 2 almost 3 weeks and was fine. Some women heal faster then others. I did wait until I stopped bleeding though.

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
May 3rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rebekah Garden x3:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" yeah because your cervix is still ... [snip!] ... a d**k up there after giving birth makes my vag hurt. :o"</blockquote> My cervix never opened! I had a c section."</blockquote>




Are...you...serious??

Rachelbabyxx 1 child; Nottingham, United Kingdom 405 posts
May 3rd '13

I didn't have stitches just grazes but I do feel a bit sore but not so much I feel fine down there so will wait 5 weeks because I really can't wait much longer and if it does feel like I haven't healed properly my husband respects me enough to stop if I don't feel comfortable

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5419 posts
May 3rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting [JadeLee]:</b>" That is how it is over here! You don't get checked out until 6 weeks. I have heard of women getting ... [snip!] ... I had complications so I waited until 8 weeks and even then it hurt like hell, and it didn't feel the same for a few weeks."</blockquote>




Wow that is a disgrace! So much can happen in the space of 6 weeks, I am shocked there is no real aftercare before 6 weeks!! Makes me truly grateful for the support and immediate aftercare we receive here.

0_o 3 kids; 1 angel baby; ,, ,, United States 17019 posts
May 3rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting tinana+2:</b>" :!: and infect. Nothing more special than being in the hospital and needing someone else to take care of to take care of your newborn. Explain that one... "well I was horny and didn't listen, so..""</blockquote>




ppl are just so impatient. lets induce because I AM DONE with pregnancy who cares about baby



or who cares about getting an infection or horribly hurting myself after birth I AM HORNY