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controlling relationship Audreyymichelle Due June 14; 1 child; Delaware 2330 posts
Apr 28th '13

I want to leave I really do but makes me feel so guilty about it. He constantly embarrasses me in public and talks down to me. People just stare at him, he will straight up cuss me out tell me I'm a stupid b***h and what ever else. I'm not happy I never really have been but I wanted my little family and I still had hope he would change. Well there reality kicked in and I want out. I want.to.know how.you ladies did it. I have a job but no.car I totaled mine April 1st. I have a place to.go but its 45+ mins away from my job.

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 7119 posts
Apr 28th '13

If you go the place that you can go to how hard would it to find a new job?

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Apr 28th '13

You totalled your new car that you just got? I would get a new job. I have seen your posts. You can leave. You should have left ages ago.

Ellie Goulding 2 kids; London, --, United Kingdom 6217 posts
Apr 28th '13

I also have noticed your posts in the past. I'm glad you want out. You don't deserve any of that, seriously. You gave up and put up with so much, and I don't even mean his abuse.
Can you find a job closer to your new place?
I wish I had something more useful to say.
You can do it!

A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
Apr 28th '13

:( you need to get out.. I've read your posts before

Audreyymichelle Due June 14; 1 child; Delaware 2330 posts
Apr 28th '13

Yes I totaled my car I only drove it 5 days and.the bolts holding the tire on snapped while I was driving home. I got a $1985 check for a new car and he took.it.and spent it all. So I'm back to nothing. I'm going to see if.I can transfer stores to make it easier for me. I'm determined this.time
All my money is direct deposited to my moms bank.acct and he will find that out Friday and Thia time I'm not leaving for a guy I'm leaving for me.

Yurvette [♥] TTC since Jan 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37262 posts
Apr 28th '13

WTF.... that was YOUR money not his... WTF. good for you. You need to leave. :)

Housewife & Co 1 child; Washington, District of Columbia 600 posts
Apr 28th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bummo Jollyfuxk:</b>" Yes I totaled my car I only drove it 5 days and.the bolts holding the tire on snapped ... [snip!] ... deposited to my moms bank.acct and he will find that out Friday and Thia time I'm not leaving for a guy I'm leaving for me."</blockquote>




Was the check titled under your name? I'd call the cops.

Audreyymichelle Due June 14; 1 child; Delaware 2330 posts
Apr 28th '13

the title.was in both of.our names so.the check.was also

Housewife & Co 1 child; Washington, District of Columbia 600 posts
Apr 29th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bummo Jollyfuxk:</b>" the title.was in both of.our names so.the check.was also"</blockquote>




I'm so sorry you're going through this :/ it will get better in time & you will come out stronger if you stick to your decision.

LayLu (girl); 17 kids; Virginia 4007 posts
Apr 29th '13

I've been there, I dated someone who would call me names and cuss me out in public, called me a stupid wh**e if I tried having a conversation with anyone, even told me I needed to eat more and gain more weight so no one else would want me, it was ridiculous and totally not worth it. At the time, I was only 18.. so when I left, I just went back to my mom's. I didn't have a child to care for or bills that needed to be paid, so it wasn't that big of a deal. I can't really offer you any advice, but just know you're not alone and you definitely need to get out.

Audreyymichelle Due June 14; 1 child; Delaware 2330 posts
Apr 29th '13

I'm lucky to not.have bills to.pay other then $55 phone bill. I'm just so depressed and I'm dead set on leaving.having a car or.not I'll make it work some how. My mom can.help me during the summer with addi and he's.not working so.he can.keep her.even tho it will kill me to not have her around all the time