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if your man wouldn't... James & John's Mommy 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Overton, Texas 3249 posts
Apr 22nd '13

What would you do if your man wouldn't eat you out? Like straight won't, no reason, but he still wants you to give him a BJ?

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
Apr 22nd '13

There's lots of girls who won't go down on their man but he does them, so if day it's the se situation. Maybe encourage he try it but if he's not comfortable I wouldn't push it as long as he's making sure I got off somehow haha. But if probably want to know why he didnt want to cause maybe there'd be a way we could fix the problem.

thewininghooker. TTC since Jan 2013; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Somewhere, In, Canada 74910 posts
Apr 22nd '13

I'd question why. But I'm a "gotta give to receive" type, so if I got nothing neither would he.

S +1.5 *15 weeks* Due May 24; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Larouche, Quebec 1125 posts
Apr 22nd '13

I've been in this situation more than once. I love giving BJs so for a while I caved. But after a while, I said it straight up. We 69 or you get none. It's only fair. My ex even told me that he wouldn't eat me out after I gave birth to our first child, because "I'm not going to lick something my kid came out of!" O_O what kind of bullshit reason is that!?



I'd straight-out tell him: Look, if you don't want to please me orally, that's fine. Just don't expect me to feel incline to please YOU orally either.

James & John's Mommy 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Overton, Texas 3249 posts
Apr 22nd '13

whats sad is he doesn't satisfy me in bed anymore... and he doesn't do anything to tey and get me off... ugh... i'm seriously about to tell him i'll get sex elsewhere :roll:

1inpink3inblue Due December 7 (boy); 3 kids; Switzerland 13391 posts
Apr 22nd '13

I'd stop giving bjs. But o don't have that issue. Dh likes doing it more than I like getting it lol.

user banned California 36390 posts
Apr 22nd '13

I wouldn't ever want him to feel uncomfortable so I wouldn't push but I don't want to be eaten out.

Starr Metcalfe 3 kids; Kentucky 504 posts
Apr 22nd '13
Quoting Anna. Mommy of two boys:" What would you do if your man wouldn't eat you out? Like straight won't, no reason, but he still wants you to give him a BJ?"



Just give him the BJ. My man never ever wants to go downstairs, but I'm asked to almost daily. lol I'm not a selfish lover, no big deal. I'd rather see him happy and take care of myself later.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
Apr 22nd '13

First off, he wouldnt be my man if he was always against it.



If he just suddenly became against it....we'd be going to counselling to MAKE him give me a reason.

James & John's Mommy 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Overton, Texas 3249 posts
Apr 22nd '13
Quoting Teenage Girl:" I wouldn't ever want him to feel uncomfortable so I wouldn't push but I don't want to be eaten out."


shit... i could use a good lickin lol

user banned California 36390 posts
Apr 22nd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Anna. Mommy of two boys:</b>" shit... i could use a good lickin lol"</blockquote>




It really grosses me out

James & John's Mommy 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Overton, Texas 3249 posts
Apr 22nd '13

not me, im BI and i love it either way

Cakes. 1 child; Michigan 2837 posts
Apr 22nd '13

I'd be like, "Fair is fair, m**********r. Now get down there."



No, but seriously, I would ask him why he wouldn't. Some guys just don't like to. I like giving BJs, though, so I guess I wouldn't have this problem haha. Glad my man goes down on me, though.

Mama Rice 34 kids; North Las Vegas, Nevada 11987 posts
Apr 22nd '13

He won't. I give the occassional BJ but he makes up for it by being able to make me squirt, it is more intense a finish than I have ever had through oral.

Thr3e Little Birds 35 kids; Marysville, Washington 2720 posts
Apr 22nd '13
Quoting Anna. Mommy of two boys:" whats sad is he doesn't satisfy me in bed anymore... and he doesn't do anything to tey and get me off... ugh... i'm seriously about to tell him i'll get sex elsewhere :roll:"

My dh and I had the same issue for a long time. Someone told us to read "intended for pleasure" and we did. He still hasnt gone down on me, but he does other things now that he wouldnt do before and he is finding pleasure in pleasing me so he is more and more willing to do different things. I figure that he will build up to it when he is ready. It was a really good book. It has some religious stuff in it, but if that bothers you, just ignore that part. The rest is very scientific and informative.