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*************************************** Rebekah Garden x3 Due October 5 (boy); 33 kids; Fall River, Massachusetts 5223 posts
Apr 16th '13

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user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
Apr 16th '13

You need to leave.

mɑκαnɑni ~, OO, United States 76027 posts
Apr 16th '13

Why the hell are you still with him? I don't care the reason, there's never any reason to say that.

BeginTheRomance Due July 21 (girl); 1 child; Rochester, New York 373 posts
Apr 16th '13

Hardships or not, that kind of talk is NOT acceptable. I would be gone.

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4500 posts
Apr 16th '13

Get away from him. You deserve better.

0_o 3 kids; 1 angel baby; ,, ,, United States 17142 posts
Apr 16th '13

I would get a divorce

.Jezebel. TTC since Dec 2015; 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 10053 posts
Apr 16th '13

I agree with the rest of the ladies. Having a hard time doesn't mean you get to teat people any way you want. Don't put up with it!

Rebekah Garden x3 Due October 5 (boy); 33 kids; Fall River, Massachusetts 5223 posts
Apr 16th '13

I know that is what I need to do. I am trying to build up the courage! It is just so hard! I never imagined I would be single and pregnant with a 13 month old!

lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA* 21 kids; Sherwood, Arkansas 17987 posts
Apr 16th '13

he needs professional help from the sound of it. therapy sessions and such. possibly meds to even out these feelings. if this was all brought on after those events (he hasn't always been that hateful toward you) he may be having a very hard time dealing with it all and doesn't realize how harsh he is being. now if he wont get any help then I would say leave him. but if you do love him you should see if getting him help will do anything for yall, not just ending it.

Akeema 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Kissimmee, FL, United States 6824 posts
Apr 16th '13
Quoting mαkαnαni:" Why the hell are you still with him? I don't care the reason, there's never any reason to say that."


AGREED! THIS IS BULLSHIT, GET OUT!

Legendary Yo Mama Due January 31 (boy); 12 kids; 724 posts
Apr 16th '13

Holy crap. I got pregnant, fired and totaled my car the same month. Leave him. If I can do it, anyone can do it. Don't let anyone treat you like that. Perhaps you can work it out later, but abandon ship for the time being. He needs to work on himself. Don't think you are stuck or whatever the crap you are feeling. Nobody deserves that. You are smart. You can figure things out. Stand up for your kid and yourself. Please, please don't put up with that. Ask for help if you need to. There's no shame in that. You'll hate yourself later if you don't.
Xoxoxo.

Nicola. 2 kids; Manton, MI, United States 13386 posts
Apr 16th '13

Even under stress and a lot going on, those are not normal things to say to someone you love.
I would give the a*****e what he wanted, and leave.

What if... 2 kids; Ontario 4587 posts
Apr 16th '13
Quoting lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA*:" he needs professional help from the sound of it. therapy sessions and such. possibly meds to even out ... [snip!] ... I would say leave him. but if you do love him you should see if getting him help will do anything for yall, not just ending it."


I agree with this fully! please take what she said into consideration before just leaving



sorry that you are both going through this and that you've been treated poorly lately

lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA* 21 kids; Sherwood, Arkansas 17987 posts
Apr 16th '13
Quoting Dallas ♥ Isla:" I agree with this fully! please take what she said into consideration before just leaving sorry that you are both going through this and that you've been treated poorly lately"

I have lived through a relationship with someone who was like that after some hard events in our lives. he needs professional help. he never got it and I had to leave him for my own sanity but I 100% believe that if he had went to therapy and got on some kind of medicine to even himself out that we still be together today. I even had to go to therapy for a while myself (didn't need meds just some outside help)

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
Apr 16th '13

My husband said things like that to me. It took him cheating on me to get me to leave him and divorce. I hate that part of my life and I am glad I have a new life without him.