bio-dad/emotions snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
Apr 16th '13

about 2 months ago my bio-dad passed away. I knew him. I found my bio-mom as a teenager and she put us in contact. Today I got a package from his wife with baby pictures of myself and my sister and brother, and a letter.

I'm so f**king happy right now... I can't read it. Life is GOOD. I don't want to get emotional. We had a half-assed relationship. I was mean when we met, I had shitty coping skills and was angry with him. It laid a bad foundation for our relationship that we never found a way around.

idk.. I'll probably delete this soon. I have no reason to post this. I just needed to type it out.

I figure I'll read the letter on a day when Im already emotional instead of messing up an already great day.

Madi's*Mama Due November 2; 1 child; Holland, Michigan 7391 posts
Apr 16th '13

I would read it when you are ready to read it. You clearly are not ready yet and that's ok. *Hugs*

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
Apr 16th '13

I'm glad you got to meet both parents. Even if you didn't have a great relationship you'll always be able to say you met them.

Don't read the letter until you are ready. I don't know that I would ever be emotionally prepared to read that.