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Thanks asswad. whitney ♥ ainsley 1 child; New Hampshire 16454 posts
Apr 14th '13

My ex is a real prick.



For starters, I will admit I have a mental illness. When I get hit with depression, nothing gets me out of it. I can't take care of myself, yada yada.
I admit this, I admit I'm not always a good person.



My ex just told me I was fat, and a sociopath.



He really loves to make me feel small. I've never met someone with such hatred that needed to make everyone around them miserable.

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
Apr 14th '13

Fat is the worst insult ever.
Either A.) You are fat, and you already know you are fat. So way to point out the obvious
Or B.) You aren't fat. So it's stupid.

whitney ♥ ainsley 1 child; New Hampshire 16454 posts
Apr 14th '13
Quoting Smartass *Preggo!*:" Fat is the worst insult ever. Either A.) You are fat, and you already know you are fat. So way to point out the obvious Or B.) You aren't fat. So it's stupid."


It's just because he knows I'm insecure. I'm not skinny, but I'm not obese. He just likes to play on my insecurities.

.Jezebel. TTC since Dec 2015; 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 10053 posts
Apr 14th '13

I think the problem lies within the person throwing the insults. You have to feel really bad about yourself to try and make someone else feel bad. If that makes sense? It really shows the maturity level of some people. I'm sorry mama, he's an ass!

whitney ♥ ainsley 1 child; New Hampshire 16454 posts
Apr 14th '13
Quoting sαяα:" I think the problem lies within the person throwing the insults. You have to feel really bad about yourself ... [snip!] ... someone else feel bad. If that makes sense? It really shows the maturity level of some people. I'm sorry mama, he's an ass!"


That's what I said.

Two Princesses 2 kids; Los Angeles, CA, United States 7205 posts
Apr 14th '13

I also have Major Depression.
My ex husband was the same way. He said awful things to cut me down when he was upset or angry. Stuff like that I was ugly, fat, that he could do better than me, that he was cheating on me, that no one not even my family likes me, ETC.
Not sure where all of that spite comes from either. Just glad I'm no longer with him and with my soul mate now. A man who'd bite his own arm off before saying those things to me.
Try not to let his d**k behavior get to you momma.

I♥RYLEIGH Due March 3; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Windsor, Ontario 10504 posts
Apr 14th '13

I f**king hate being told I'm psycho, bipolar, sociopath etc. SO's family always says it it to me when arguments happen. That is so f**king low of him.

.Jezebel. TTC since Dec 2015; 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 10053 posts
Apr 14th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I♥RYLEIGH:</b>" I f**king hate being told I'm psycho, bipolar, sociopath etc. SO's family always says it it to me when arguments happen. That is so f**king low of him."</blockquote>



I definitely think that the dig at a sickness is much worse than calling someone fat. When I get called fat, I'm like really? Is that the best you've got?

whitney ♥ ainsley 1 child; New Hampshire 16454 posts
Apr 14th '13
Quoting sαяα:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I♥RYLEIGH:</b>" I f**king hate being told I'm psycho, ... [snip!] ... dig at a sickness is much worse than calling someone fat. When I get called fat, I'm like really? Is that the best you've got?"


I swear he thinks that my mental illness is something I can just shut off. Once when he was angry he asked if I had just "made up" being molested when I was a kid. WTF?

I♥RYLEIGH Due March 3; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Windsor, Ontario 10504 posts
Apr 14th '13
Quoting sαяα:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I♥RYLEIGH:</b>" I f**king hate being told I'm psycho, ... [snip!] ... dig at a sickness is much worse than calling someone fat. When I get called fat, I'm like really? Is that the best you've got?"


I'd never be offended if someone called me fat. Might upset me but I dunno. I think it's a ridiculous insult. But like u said, taking a stab at someone's sickness is so f**king low and cruel and just.................. ugh. makes me mad.

.Jezebel. TTC since Dec 2015; 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 10053 posts
Apr 14th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:</b>" I swear he thinks that my mental illness is something I can just shut off. Once when he was angry he asked if I had just "made up" being molested when I was a kid. WTF?"</blockquote>




Yep, he's a winner. When he starts talking trash just leave or get off the phone. Don't let it bother you, he's an idiot. :/

whitney ♥ ainsley 1 child; New Hampshire 16454 posts
Apr 14th '13
Quoting sαяα:" <blockquote><b>Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:</b>" I swear he thinks that my mental ... [snip!] ... Yep, he's a winner. When he starts talking trash just leave or get off the phone. Don't let it bother you, he's an idiot. :/"


I would literally love to leave and never see him again. Sadly we have a four year old together so I have a long way to go before I never see him again.

.Jezebel. TTC since Dec 2015; 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 10053 posts
Apr 14th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:</b>" I would literally love to leave and never see him again. Sadly we have a four year old together so I have a long way to go before I never see him again. "</blockquote>




That sucks. I've never had a man say anything like that to me before. :/

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
Apr 14th '13

What a jerk. Pathetic

Little G's Mama Due December 23 (boy); 1 child; Pennsylvania 6164 posts
Apr 15th '13

Hate Peter.....jerk!