user banned 1 child; Golden, Colorado 28482 posts
Apr 13th '13
Quoting Mrs.Pinkman:" I'm sorry. I really tried to read this but it makes zero sense."

This. Just..... what the frickin frack did I just read?

Olga Lopez 3 kids; Houston, Texas 40 posts
Apr 14th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tristan and Auroras mummy:</b>" It is very immature. All I want ... [snip!] ... nothing new. You need to start being honest with yourself. You have the Internet, you have a means of contacting your father."</blockquote>

Agree with you 100% She wont leave it's hard for some to get up and go. She's looking for excuses to stay. Like you said you have internet and with that said you can get ahold of your father. Spot being an idiot and stand up for your kids and yourself.

Trey&Genesis'momma 4 kids; 4 angel babies; Somewhere, IN, United States 4802 posts
Apr 14th '13

I'm sorry but I have to agree with everyone was very hard to understand the situation but what I gathered, this is the BEST situation for you even if it feels unfair and hurtful right now. I know you love him, I know you have twins with him but you HAVE to start looking out for what's best for you and those kids and not what you necessarily want. He's not been a good bf from the start according to your other posts. This was just a last resort way to leave you. You need to start over with your life. Focus on getting yourself together and taking care of the kids and maybe one day you'll find someone who actually wants to be with you and loves you for who you are. Not someone who constantly treats you like crap and doesn't take care of his kids. Let him go as much as it hurts bc if you stay, you are only going to continue hurting yourself and your kiddos. He doesn't love you. I'm sorry you are dealing with this though. Hugs.