Quoting Legendary Amanda:" lol yes. Not in a mean way but he'll be like "Want to uh... help me clean the toilet?" And I'll just be like No :roll:"
lol! Sounds about how I would react. I don't think I would feel right with my kids being up in the next room.
Quoting Vindictive:" I'm not talking about ACTUALLY having sex. I'm talking about him TRYING to get you to. Like, if it's ... [snip!] ... are awake.. is he still getting at you to come suck his d**k in the bathroom? Even though you both know you obviously can't?"
Yeah I still stick to my answer and just replace actual sex with trying to have sex LOL there are some days that he's all over me or dropping heavy hints he wants something from me. And other days it's me who's doing the hounding. and then there's times that sex is like non existent in our minds.
We do like to touch each other a lot though. Like we grab each other in sexual ways all the time. But not with the intention to have sex...(most of the time) lol
We used to have a lot of sex on our first year, but then again we only saw each other a couple of times during that time, so when we saw each other it was on.
*but he won't just whip his p***s out when the kids are like right there or anything like that haha
We've been dating almost 10years and physically together almost 7 years (we long distance dated for a few years).
At the beginning of the relationship he'd come at me a few times a week at bad times (we were living with his Mom x-x). But now he VERY rarely comes after me in bad times. It's more like once in 3+ months. His sex drive is far less and he knows when it's going to happen and when it's not. haha
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" That doesn't really bother me... I just don't want a d**k in my mouth. "
I couldn't even have sex with my kid awake. lol Although it might be because she would be banging on the door!
He wants me everyday.
Usually before bed he tries to gets some but I'm just not a love machine anymore lol so he usually gets turned down 70% of the time.
He tries maybe once a week. I'm just not into it. He would never try when the kids are awake because, well, that would just not work :lol:
He never asks. He'll hint at it but never straight up ask for sex or a bj.
He rarely hints at it anymore and just lets sex happen when it does because he knows my sex drive is super low.
SO asks sometimes before sex...but to do until he finishes, he's only asked on days that I couldn't sleep with him. I do every time he asks because he would be down there for me at any time of day before I could even get the question out.. lol.. We've been together for 2 years, and it's always been like this :)
Quoting Forrest Bondurant &hearts:" Maybe 3 times a month? It's usually me that asks."
:!: Same. Once a weeks, so maybe 3-4 times per month and I'm the one that brings it up. And that's ANYTHING sexual. He never asks for BJs (although I do it as foreplay). In my opinion he has a VERY low sex drive and honestly it drives me nuts. I've talked to him about it several times and want him to see a doctor. Honestly, if I didn't bring it up or hint at it, we'd do it like once a month... He doesn't get turned on very easily either... It really sucks honestly. I wish he had a higher sex drive... We've been together 8 years and he's 31 and in EXCELLENT phsyical health/condition, so I don't get what the problem is.
WHEN we do it, the sex is great though... LOL
Been married 5 years friday. Together 8 years. He makes comments a few times a day, everyday. When i was pg he tried not to say anything but once or twice a week since i couldnt almost the whole time. We have sex 3-4x a week.
As soon as my son falls asleep, its the first question out his mouth.
If I walk into the laundry room. Still dont know why that is.
If he is bored.
Generally the conversation goes:
"You feel like having sex?"
"Not right now babe, maybe later"
"ok" ten minutes later
We've only been together 7/8 months so we're, or rather he's, still in that stage of "YAY sex!" and wants it literally every second he sees its a possibility.