im late on this but im going through something simular. ive with with SO for 5 yrs our son is 2yrs and we fight all the time. im so over it weve gone to councling and it just comes to me with the problem. he will be an ass then he will se sweet after. ive sat down and told him what he does and it hurts me. ive had many talks to him about how treats me and it isnt gettign any better his mom & sister support me in whatever i choose to do. but its so hard to leave but when it comes to your kid learning this is how to treat someone isnt right! i think is this how i want my son to treat woman... hell no! i think would my mom want to see me go throught this(shes passed and known SO before we were ever together) hell no she would talk to him tell him shes so disappioned and would of expected more of him.
i think our relationship is over but we are both holding onto it. i want my family together badly but in reality this is far from heatly.
good luck hun!
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As of right now were still together but we are so distant. Its almost akward I guess. I think my husband thought that staying together would bring us back to how we "used to be" but its far from that. Also I feel like I just don't care anymore... I have this f**k it attitude and my only concern and focus is on our son. I would love to have my family together but if my husband and I can't see eye to eye, we can't get along, and he thinks its okay to be disrespectful by acting like a idiot and staying out all night then why be with someone like that. I don't know we haven't really talked to much about the situation either whenever I think about it, it pisses me off. I have thought about counseling but not sure he would go for it. I guess for now i'm just going to play it by ear and see what happens...
Youre situation sounds alot like mine! my partner act's excatlly the same...
I feel like just packing up and leaving but then again i dont because of our son!
and which makes it harder is our son has to have major surgery in July, which i think is also putting a lot a stress and pressure on us also being our 1st child and he's still a baby :( he'll be like 9/10mths when he has his operation.
Quoting ♡ Lebron ♡:" Youre situation sounds alot like mine! my partner act's excatlly the same... I feel like just packing ... [snip!] ... a stress and pressure on us also being our 1st child and he's still a baby :( he'll be like 9/10mths when he has his operation."
aww i'm so sorry, yea i'm more than sure you and your husband are super stressed about your son so that probably causes some problems as well. I hope everything works out!!