Leaving BG for a while (Please don't quote) Evan My Heaven TTC since Apr 2012; 33 kids; West Chester Township, Ohio 3374 posts
Apr 6th '13

Thanks for the advice. We'll keep hoping and praying.

saageex3 2 kids; New York 6699 posts
Apr 6th '13

It makes sense. Good luck on your journey and lots of baby dust to you

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
Apr 6th '13

Im really sorry honey. I hope that you get your second miracle baby. And I understand it's hard. I watched my poor sisters heart break every month for years. I hope you keep in touch and I wish you the best. Don't give up.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
Apr 6th '13

It makes sense.

But you also sound very depressed, and I hope you find help and start to realize all you have in life, and not be so focused on what you dont have. Its a long road, you got to take the steps and it will get better.

Best of luck to you!

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 18492 posts
Apr 6th '13

Yes it makes a lot of sense. I usually have to take a break from BG after a miscarriage.

I'm so sorry about your husband's recent diagnosis. I do encourage you to eventually look into your options before deciding to quit TTC for good. It doesn't hurt to be aware of the options available to you and it may turn out that there's one you're comfortable with. But for now just take some time to grieve. Don't be afraid to grieve for this, it's something you'll need to do. *hugs*

loser mom 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, Norway, ,,, Europe 12277 posts
Apr 6th '13

Best of luck, OP.

user banned 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Indiana 75866 posts
Apr 6th '13

I'm sorry, mama. I've been there. I've had to take several BG breaks for that very reason. It is hard to cope when it's in your face all the time. I hope it happens soon for you. Truly, I do. Hugs.

❤Hope❤ Due December 1; Japan 61 posts
Apr 6th '13

Best of luck!

user banned Due December 8 (boy); 16 kids; Massachusetts 6396 posts
Apr 6th '13

I'm so sorry, OP!!! I wish you lots of luck. My DH and I tried for 3 years to get pregnant when we found out that my husband could not produce ANY sperm what so ever. We conceived this baby with donor sperm. I thought we'd never have children. I also agree with Amelia. *HUGS*

Mrs.Rachael +2.5 Due November 28 (girl); 18 kids; Shreveport, Louisiana 10326 posts
Apr 6th '13

Lots of hugs girl, you are absolutely entitled to feel how you are feeling and if someone gets "butthurt" about you opening up honestly, shame on them. Let something else take over your mind for now, find a new hobby and use it as a distraction when you find yourself sinking. Good luck <3 so sorry to hear about your hubby and I hope they can find a way to up his count back up.

Momlette of 3 Due November 3; 3 kids; Ohio 25670 posts
Apr 6th '13

Ill miss you and the good advice you have provided me over the years! Hope to see you back here posting about a pregnancy soon! Best of luck dear.