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♔ BαtMαɳ Due April 8; Gotham, DC, United States 89691 posts
status Apr 1st '13
Quoting Just Ames:" OMG way to be a spaz and jump to conclusions :?"


:!:
As if OP needs ignorant, stupid thoughts like that shoved into her head on top of everything else.

Secret Service Texas 792 posts
Apr 1st '13
Quoting Jackie Burkhart ♡:" Do you sit straight up or do you lean forward? Sitting straight up and grinding or bouncing is tiring as shit. I never do that."


both but I cant do it on my feet at all

Secret Service Texas 792 posts
Apr 1st '13
Quoting Moon*Siren:" omg, wow! He isn't cheating is he? And just saying those nasty, hurtful things to push you away is he?"


no he said some of that the first day we met

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 18492 posts
Apr 1st '13
Quoting Moon*Siren:" Why would any man want a woman too experience that she made him per-ejaculate? My hubby says if she ... [snip!] ... a slut lol. And my man likes to last as long as possible so he doesn't feel inadequate in bed. That is some shitty shit there!"


Whaaaat? You have to be a slut to be good in bed?

Secret Service Texas 792 posts
Apr 1st '13
Quoting Just Ames:" What about with him sitting up and supporting your back. Like him in a sitting position holding onto your back."


his ex was much much skinier that me and taller

Jackie Burkhart 1 child; Baltimore, MD, United States 7276 posts
Apr 1st '13
Quoting Secret Service:" both but I cant do it on my feet at all"



OH GIRL. That sounds horrible. I would never bounce on my feet, CRAMPS.



I always lean forward with legs tucked under me and my hands by his head and rock back and forth.. It's never too late to learn new things and try stuff. Ask him what he wants you to do to him? I was a virgin when I met my now husband. It was never awkward or anything but, he'd teach me what he likes, and I go with it.

Moon*Siren 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Williamstown, Kentucky 2136 posts
Apr 1st '13
Quoting Just Ames:" OMG way to be a spaz and jump to conclusions :?"


No, was just asking if that was the case. Due to her saying she lived a block from work and telling him she loved him etc. and then him turn around and say that to her, maybe I read it wrong idk, I was talking to my daughter also.

Nickels522 Florida 17031 posts
Apr 1st '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Secret Service:</b>" no he said some of that the first day we met"</blockquote>




See this is not bad at all gives you the opportunity to show you what he likes. Also, you should just ask him what he likes what feels good to him....all guys are different with sex some like doggy and others plain ol missionary.

Moon*Siren 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Williamstown, Kentucky 2136 posts
Apr 1st '13
Quoting Secret Service:" no he said some of that the first day we met"


ooh, gotcha. I thought that was recent my bad. I thought you was in a long relationship with him when he said this lol.

Secret Service Texas 792 posts
Apr 1st '13
Quoting Jackie Burkhart ♡:" OH GIRL. That sounds horrible. I would never bounce on my feet, CRAMPS. I always lean forward with ... [snip!] ... I was a virgin when I met my now husband. It was never awkward or anything but, he'd teach me what he likes, and I go with it. "


legs tucked under???

Jackie Burkhart 1 child; Baltimore, MD, United States 7276 posts
Apr 1st '13
Quoting Secret Service:" legs tucked under???"


Like, if you sit on your knees, your legs will be tucked under you.

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
Apr 1st '13

Patented amazing sex move for on top, easy on both partners:
Ride him nice and slow for a bit, then sit straight and get him to grab your hips, no actual bouncing necessary, it's like jostling almost? But you're moving your hips forward and back, full in the whole time, and he's grabbing your hips and shaking them the same way you're moving them.



Very fast. Very hard.
Very awesome. See stars every time and DH LOOOOVES it.

Jackie Burkhart 1 child; Baltimore, MD, United States 7276 posts
Apr 1st '13
Quoting Sneakthief:" Patented amazing sex move for on top, easy on both partners: Ride him nice and slow for a bit, then sit ... [snip!] ... shaking them the same way you're moving them. Very fast. Very hard. Very awesome. See stars every time and DH LOOOOVES it."


We do a variation of this. LOL. :wink:

LayLu (girl); 17 kids; Virginia 4007 posts
Apr 1st '13
Quoting Secret Service:" how did you get over it though"


I dunno.. I guess him explaining it to me made me feel better (I did kinda take it the wrong way, but he should have worded it differently), plus the constant apologies lol. But if he said anything like what your SO said, I dunno how I'd get over it. Does he realize how upset you are about the situation? Maybe you should tell him you love him and you're willing to do whatever he wants in bed to satisfy him, and explain to him that comments like that aren't going to help your sex life together.

Severus Snape 2 kids; Tennessee 3550 posts
Apr 1st '13

I would be very offended. Especially sense he went into great detail about it. Did he say it to piss you off or because he wants to mix it up? The comment was offensive but if he had good intentions then it's not worth breaking up a family over. Give yourself time to heal from the hurt and then try some crazy new things. Variety alone might completely change his opinion.