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If you never had kids... whitney ♥ ainsley 1 child; New Hampshire 16454 posts
Mar 27th '13

Where do you think you'd be now?
Would you have a different career?
Be in school?
Live somewhere different?




If I hadn't had Ainsley I honestly have no idea where I'd be. I didn't even decide what I wanted to do until recently, so who knows.

The Doctor 2 kids; Boulder, CO, United States 60774 posts
Mar 27th '13

I'd be pursuing what I was pursing when I got pregnant with DD. probably living in a shoebox and loving it.

[Gryffinwhore♥] 3 kids; anywhere, bH, United States 37526 posts
Mar 27th '13

If I hadn't had kids? I would probably still be living in bum-f**k nowhere, with my shitty boyfriend, drinking every weekend and working for peanuts.



Having kids pushed me to do better. It has made it harder, but it gave me the drive I needed.

♀NoBoysAllowed 19 kids; San Diego, California 51862 posts
Mar 27th '13

I'd probably be a stay at home wife, instead of a stay at home mom...lol.

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
Mar 27th '13
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" Where do you think you'd be now? Would you have a different career? Be in school? Live somewhere different? ... [snip!] ... had Ainsley I honestly have no idea where I'd be. I didn't even decide what I wanted to do until recently, so who knows. "


no clue. The experience in the hospital when I had my first is what convinced me to be a nurse.

FanGirl 2 kids; Tennessee 24377 posts
Mar 27th '13

believe it or not, probably homeless and doing drugs that could kill me. i didn't do the drugs but was well on my way to it. My daughter honestly saved my life, i have no doubt on that.

LIVE.OUT.LOUD Due July 11 (boy); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Lawrenceville, Georgia 1624 posts
Mar 27th '13

Honestly id probably be in jail or dead. Getting pregnant with my first was what made me change everything around. My kids are my biggest blessing.

Little Bit's Momma Due October 21 (boy); 33 kids; North Richland Hills, Texas 7479 posts
Mar 27th '13

Dead from an OD

Mommy to munchkin Due September 23 (boy); 17 kids; 1 angel baby; somewhere, TX, United States 1449 posts
Mar 27th '13

Probably living where we were before I got pregnant. Do not know if I would still be with SO getting pregnant made us stick around and actually get to know each other better. Maybe going to school probably working a shitty job that I hate.

Smash Fins ; 2 kids; Denver, Colorado 1479 posts
Mar 27th '13

I honestly can't even think of what my life would be like with out my son.

I have a pretty amazing job because I wanted to be able to work for his future... I probably would have just gone for my, "passion," in a career instead of what makes the most money.

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
Mar 27th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Little Bit's Momma:</b>" Dead from an OD"</blockquote>




:!:

*LeeAnn+3* 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Batesville, Arkansas 12492 posts
Mar 27th '13

If I didn't have Alyssah I'd probably be 6feet under the ground.



I had a serious drug/drinking problem before I had Alyssah.



Some days are hard.
I had a relapse about a 1 1/2 year ago, I went back to drinking & drugs. Lost Alyssah. Luckily I had a friend who cared got me away from drugs & drinking. Exactly 1 year ago I got Alyssah back.

~Nimlorel~ Due September 28; 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Edmonton, Alberta 4821 posts
Mar 27th '13

I was saving for school, planning on moving to another city to take an arts program and then those two lines showed up. It's still something I plan to do (minus the move) but it's on the back burner right now.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
Mar 27th '13

Probably still a nomad trying to find myself and get started with college somehow. Not sure I'd be in college, since I took a year off and got pregnant. Who knows. I'll figure something out eventually... :(

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
Mar 27th '13

Coming back from Germany on my way to my new duty station. Probably working on becoming an officer.