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one of each 4 me TTC since Jan 2015; 3 kids; Ohio 6295 posts
Mar 22nd '13

Since u r feeling like this is something that needs to happen because of your pregnancy then I would not say its the right time. Later on you might resent him for it because you are pregnant an not feeling good or whatever and he was still able to act like things were before if that makes sense. Or you might worry that she was doing things better or you might get jealous bc you don't want to have sex and feel she is giving him something you can't.
I am not against multiple ppl in a relationship. I could never do it but right now just seems like a bad time IMO

LayLu (girl); 17 kids; Virginia 4007 posts
Mar 22nd '13

I've always wanted to include another woman but I know I wouldn't be able to do it with my SO. I love him too much and I know I'd get way too jealous, I also know he'd probably wonder if I wanted a woman more than him (I dated women before I met him so he's always been a little insecure about me leaving him for another woman, but I never would). There's just too many things that could go wrong.. I'd rather just go without than live out a fantasy and ruin my relationship with the man I love.

mama2manyyy 33 kids; South Carolina 1823 posts
Mar 22nd '13
Quoting one of each 4 me:" Since u r feeling like this is something that needs to happen because of your pregnancy then I would ... [snip!] ... you can't. I am not against multiple ppl in a relationship. I could never do it but right now just seems like a bad time IMO"


Yeah, I agree now after really thinking about it that it is a bad time. It could get ugly with all my crazy pregnancy hormones.

P Pickle Pants 98 kids; California 20532 posts
Mar 22nd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting LayLu:</b>" I've always wanted to include another woman but I know I wouldn't be able to do it with my SO. I love ... [snip!] ... things that could go wrong.. I'd rather just go without than live out a fantasy and ruin my relationship with the man I love."</blockquote>



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