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*** mama2manyyy 33 kids; South Carolina 1823 posts
Mar 20th '13

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GirlsHaveCOOTIES 4 kids; Bonnyville, AB, Canada 15354 posts
Mar 20th '13

I could never do it.. Im the jealous type.

mama2manyyy 33 kids; South Carolina 1823 posts
Mar 20th '13
Quoting My boys=My life~10weeks:" I could never do it.. Im the jealous type."


I am not but I am afraid this could bring it out.

lamr - 02-08-13-21 2 kids; Crazytown, ON, Canada 6008 posts
Mar 20th '13

Nothing positive will ever come from this.

Good Queen Bess Due December 27; 2 kids; Ontario 49564 posts
Mar 20th '13

Are you talking about a t*******e or him having a relationship separate from your own?

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20273 posts
Mar 20th '13
Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:" Nothing positive will ever come from this."


:!:



He doesn't need someone to take care of him.

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16901 posts
Mar 20th '13
Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:" Nothing positive will ever come from this."


this!! i could never do that

Vitameatavegamin 19 kids; League City, Texas 5829 posts
Mar 20th '13
Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:" Nothing positive will ever come from this."


:!:

Little Bit's Momma Due October 21 (boy); 33 kids; North Richland Hills, Texas 7479 posts
Mar 20th '13
Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:" Nothing positive will ever come from this."


:!: I've heard NOTHING but horror stories and death sentences for relationships from this kinda thing
Even if you aren't the jealous type NORMALLY.....this deff could bring it out.
I could never do it, I'd kill a b***h lol

user banned California 36390 posts
Mar 20th '13

Do you mean you want to all three be together? Or him go outside the marriage? For just sex or a relationship too?

mama2manyyy 33 kids; South Carolina 1823 posts
Mar 20th '13
Quoting Forrest Bondurant &hearts:" Do you mean you want to all three be together? Or him go outside the marriage? For just sex or a relationship too?"


It would have to be someone that we would both be with, and probably not just sex.

Mommy2ThreeLilMonkeys 3 kids; California 5005 posts
Mar 20th '13

marriage is between two people not three, nothing good will come of this.Once you let someone step over those sacred boundaries and security of marriage, you are opening it up for all kinds of issues...I have seen friends of mine have a lot of issue with this..its horrible idea IMHO
if you have low sex drive, maybe you need to find a way to get into the mood... or maybe take one for the team and pleasure him in other ways.



if you do chose to do it, good luck. i'll pray for you & hope everything will work out okay for you.

mama2manyyy 33 kids; South Carolina 1823 posts
Mar 20th '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" I really dont think now is the best time to explore this, not while pregnant. You have so many emotions ... [snip!] ... and reassess at a later time, when you both can be involved since your OP indicates you want a girlfriend for both of you. "


I have thought about that. I might feel left out or feel like he prefers her or worse.

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
Mar 20th '13

I've known several men to take a 2nd relationship. One of my husband's friends has 2 wives, and he has 2 kids with 1 and 1 kid with the other. It works for them and they are really good friends. The guy bought a multi-family house and one of his wives lives upstairs, the other lives downstairs, but they spend a lot of time together. I've known others that it has done nothing but end in heartbreak though. I think all parties have to be very open and understanding of each other in order for it to work properly.

usernametx Texas 19751 posts
Mar 20th '13

I think that a man should be happy to just be with his wife if she has no sex drive during pregnancy, and not need to go be with someone else. A relationship is about more than sex.



If you want a girlfriend too, then think about it when you are both ready.