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Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
Mar 23rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Monica♥YASDYARDFR:</b>" I'm choking on water. What does Jamie do?"</blockquote>




Not disagreeing there. However, you can't preach against something and play the same game. It is hypocritical.

Monica♥YASDYARDFR Due February 27 (girl); TTC since Jan 2011; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Beverly Hills, California 57197 posts
Mar 23rd '13
Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Monica♥YASDYARDFR:</b>" It does matter when you go around ... [snip!] ... a minute, what exactly are you insinuating about me? How does that make you any better than what you are preaching against?"


I'm just saying that it is pretty sad that people are STILL standing up for the way Jamie spews garbage at people and make excuses for her. If my friend was acting like an a*****e I would tell them to quit act like an a*****e. If I saw them lashing out like a psycho I surely wouldn't be saying "oh that is just how Jamie is." I wouldn't associate with an a*****e and stand up for them like that.

Monica♥YASDYARDFR Due February 27 (girl); TTC since Jan 2011; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Beverly Hills, California 57197 posts
Mar 23rd '13
Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Monica♥YASDYARDFR:</b>" I'm choking on water. What does ... [snip!] ... Not disagreeing there. However, you can't preach against something and play the same game. It is hypocritical."


I don't really care if me calling out Jamie is hypocritical. She needs a taste of her own medicine and clearly it helps her bitchness level go down. She surely was tearing apart Kthnx until people called her out on her own shit. Sometimes people need to do that. Am I being a sweet and charming girl right now? No. However none of my friends are in here defending my actions like "oh that is just Monica."

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
Mar 23rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:</b>" The same could be said for Jamie. And if she doenst follow her around how is she in almost all of her threads being an ass to her? "</blockquote>



I find myself in the same threads as similar people all the time. I am not following them around.



I already said that I don't always agree with her. I am just saying that these petty games are ridiculous and getting old all the way around.



Oh and, I guess if it is on the Internet it MUST be true huh!?!?

user banned (boy); 2 kids; f**king, Austria 36337 posts
Mar 23rd '13
Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" LOL. That's funny. I have no ... [snip!] ... don't like what I say to her put me on ignore. "</blockquote> Pretty hostile about it aren't you? She is honest."

Ok.. So you agree that everything she has said about Barbie is the truth?

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
Mar 23rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Monica♥YASDYARDFR:</b>" I don't really care if me calling out Jamie is hypocritical. She needs a taste of her own medicine and ... [snip!] ... and charming girl right now? No. However none of my friends are in here defending my actions like "oh that is just Monica." "</blockquote>




Show me where I said "Oh, that's just Jamie"

user banned (boy); 2 kids; f**king, Austria 36337 posts
Mar 23rd '13
Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Monica♥YASDYARDFR:</b>" I'm choking on water. What does ... [snip!] ... Not disagreeing there. However, you can't preach against something and play the same game. It is hypocritical."

I like to think of myself as someone who tells it like it is. But, I don't bully.



She's a bully. That is what I am mad about.

Ellie. 2 kids; Arizona 25443 posts
Mar 23rd '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" Like recently as a couple days ago? Because I think shes lying to you. Shes known for over a month now ... [snip!] ... go after those she feels are weak. I'd be just as guilty as her if I ignored the things she said to Barbie, Rachel and Sam."


Sorry for going MIA for a few mins. My phone wont let me reply for some reason? Anyways... THIS is exactly what my problem is. Since I started BG, I said I wasn't going to do this, and here I am, right smack dab in the middle of other people's shit, and I HATE IT.



It actually makes me sick to my stomach and nervous when people dont get along. I hate when there is tension between people and I'm so even tempered most of the time, and I hate any sort of drama or tension, and I'm right here putting myself in the middle of it, and I dont even know why. Jamie was helpful to me during my loss, and I've seen her say helpful things to others experiencing a loss as well. Ive seen both sides of the coin. I try to just befriend people on here who are nice to me or if there are things in common. I try not to judge others by interactions they have with others that dont concern me because usually I dont know the other sides to the stories (honestly, I dont know the rest of the story between her and Sam or her and others). The same goes for everyone else on here. There are backstories to every other member and their beefs with others on here. I cant base my judgments of who I will like off of stories I hear about them.



Back to the issue... I know that in this thread she said those things to Sam, which I called Jamie out on.. in this thread. It wasn't cool. But I also heard there were PM's back and forth which got nasty. I haven't seen them, and I dont need to. But I dont think people should be speaking to each other like that no matter who does it. It's not nice and it's uncalled for. For anyone to be purposely hurtful to anyone else like that is just so wrong.



My whole point was that... I'm not really one to make waves on this site. Sure, in a hormonal pregnant uproar, I may have said something I regretted, and I usually apologize because I feel like shit for it, but I normally try to be as polite and helpful as I possibly can (unless it's in D&D and it's something I feel strongly about... or something to an obvious troll). But I'll be honest... I K&S'd about my feelings about Barbie... I was pretty low key about it, but I'm annoyed by her. I KNOW she cant help it. And I understand that, and I feel bad that I'm annoyed, but I am. And I said many of the things Jamie did, but in different wording.



I dont know. I think I just need to back the f**k out of this and mind my own business. This doesn't concern me, and I wasn't intending to stick up for Jamie or anything. My main point was that I basically said similar things about Barbie, but no one really seemed to care.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; f**king, Austria 36337 posts
Mar 23rd '13

I use to like Jamie.



I still think she can be funny. I am sure she does nice stuff sometimes. But, her behavior is disgusting.



The good will never outweigh the bad.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
Mar 23rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:</b>" Its hypocritical to call her out for being a bully? Sorry no. If shes just being a blunt b***h thats ... [snip!] ... You cant turn a blind eye to some of the things she does. Says a lot about your character if you allow bullying to go on."</blockquote>




Who are you to judge my character?



If you can't tell, I am actively trying to stop the stupid bully games. You are as much a bully as she is. You ARE apart of the problem as well. Do you not see that? How can you think you are different? Now, here you are throwing attacks at me. Yup, you are above that game :roll:



Honestly, all of you should be ashamed of your behavior!!! Calling names, making fun of short falls and tossing accusations. Perhaps a little self reflection is in order.

Monica♥YASDYARDFR Due February 27 (girl); TTC since Jan 2011; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Beverly Hills, California 57197 posts
Mar 23rd '13
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" Sorry for going MIA for a few mins. My phone wont let me reply for some reason? Anyways... THIS is exactly ... [snip!] ... for Jamie or anything. My main point was that I basically said similar things about Barbie, but no one really seemed to care. "

But ask Jamie WHO started the PMs? I would bet $100 it was her because that is how she does. I have seen it first hand where she PMs a friend of mine accusing them of shit. Tell her to grow up and be accountable for her own behavior.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; f**king, Austria 36337 posts
Mar 23rd '13
Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:</b>" Its hypocritical to call her out ... [snip!] ... behavior!!! Calling names, making fun of short falls and tossing accusations. Perhaps a little self reflection is in order."

Maybe you should go preach this to your friend Jamie. You are who you hang out with.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
Mar 23rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" Ok.. So you agree that everything she has said about Barbie is the truth? "</blockquote>




Where did I say that?



Oh wait, you like to insinuate and start drama. All you are doing is picking what you want to stir a pot. You are as much a mean girl as you call Jamie.



Where are your friends to call you an a*****e?

Monica♥YASDYARDFR Due February 27 (girl); TTC since Jan 2011; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Beverly Hills, California 57197 posts
Mar 23rd '13
Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:</b>" Its hypocritical to call her out ... [snip!] ... behavior!!! Calling names, making fun of short falls and tossing accusations. Perhaps a little self reflection is in order."


I'm not going to reflect on anything because I am not an a*****e. I don't go out of my way to hurt people or cause drama. I think people have gotten fed up with watching Jamie be such a jerk to everyone on this site. If she has to be this horrible to people on this site then she needs to stop and reflect on her own short comings. If she wasn't a jerk I wouldn't have said a thing to her or about her and honestly she wouldn't be on my radar.

Monica♥YASDYARDFR Due February 27 (girl); TTC since Jan 2011; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Beverly Hills, California 57197 posts
Mar 23rd '13
Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" Ok.. So you agree that everything ... [snip!] ... what you want to stir a pot. You are as much a mean girl as you call Jamie. Where are your friends to call you an a*****e?"


She is not an a*****e. Where did she call someone a pathetic human being?