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    • I dont care, I say my thing, and move on -- Votes: 71
    • I know Im right and will not stop until everyone agrees with me -- Votes: 1
    • Only on beliefs I am firm on,like abortion,circumcision, etc -- Votes: 23
    • BG members need a chill out button -- Votes: 45
Your stance on BG user banned
Mar 19th '13

A lot of women come here to ask advice, get questions answered, and speak to moms with experience.
A lot also just come for fun, post random things, pics and what have you's.
We're all different, have different views, parenting styles, beliefs and experiences. Its nice to mix together.



Do YOU feel when you read something someone has wrote that you do not believe or agree with, or do not like - YOU MUST defend it, post over and over how you are right? Do you feel that no matter what, you have the right answer and can not stop till everyone agrees with you?

Little Bit's Momma Due October 21 (boy); 33 kids; North Richland Hills, Texas 7479 posts
Mar 19th '13

Nah i'll say what I have to say, then move on. What do I care if someone doesn't have the same opinion as me? :P

Viv ♥ 3 kids; ., TX, United States 15345 posts
Mar 19th '13

I just say what I feel like and usually unsub if I don't care enough to keep talking about it :lol:



And the things I DO have a strong opinion on, I usually actually avoid those threads rather than defend my position, you'll never get anywhere.

saageex3 2 kids; New York 6667 posts
Mar 19th '13

I don't feel like everyone has to agree with me, but I do like to get my point across lol

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
Mar 19th '13

I think I do all of the above at times. When I catch myself getting all argumentative, I like to think I just go on my way, but it's not always true ugh. I hate it though.

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
Mar 19th '13

All of the above apply to me at one point or another.

Klaus 2 kids; Mississippi 27074 posts
Mar 19th '13

If a post asks for opinions, I will give mine. I don't really D&D anything though. If I see someone post something that is wrong (as in, say something is a fact that is not a fact. I don't argue against opinions) then I might correct them (politely) depending on my mood. Sometimes I let it go bc I don't care lol.

Klaus 2 kids; Mississippi 27074 posts
Mar 19th '13
Quoting Vivian [39.2]:" I just say what I feel like and usually unsub if I don't care enough to keep talking about it :lol: ... [snip!] ... DO have a strong opinion on, I usually actually avoid those threads rather than defend my position, you'll never get anywhere."


That's exactly what I do lol

mommy2thing1&thing2 Due November 11 (girl); 2 kids; Phoenix, Arizona 3064 posts
Mar 19th '13

Everyone is entitled to there own beleifs and no matter what you say or do your not going to change everyones opinion.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Mar 19th '13

Meh, BG recently has become a non-issue for me. I don't get into arguments on here, like ever anymore. I don't even have very strong views like I used to about "hot topics".

Allys_mommy 1 child; 2 angel babies; Waterloo, New York 1373 posts
Mar 19th '13

my stance is there are a bunch of judgemental women on here that think they are always right and try to brow beat other women who ask for advise into beliving their views when i read something i state my opinion and move on or if i think they are going to get flack for something i private message them my opinion or advise. we are not perfect parenst any of us and we dont have to use proper punctuation to get our point across( anothe rpet peeve of mine lol)

Mari-C 18 kids; Nebraska 3695 posts
Mar 19th '13

No, I will not go and comment on everyone's reply that I think is wrong, to prove them wrong, or sway and say I am right. I usually say what I have to say and leave it at that. If someone wants to 'attack' (as so many other people call it) me at my believes I'm going to defend what I believe, but I'm not going to be reduced to calling them stupid or any other names because they think differently...uuuunless it's a stupid troll that has no business saying shit:twisted:, lmfao

0_o 3 kids; 1 angel baby; ,, ,, United States 17630 posts
status Mar 19th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Little Bit's Momma:</b>" Nah i'll say what I have to say, then move on. What do I care if someone doesn't have the same opinion as me? :P"</blockquote>




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Wiggity Wack 1 child; Connecticut 10780 posts
Mar 19th '13

I give my opinion on the topic at hand. If it's something I feel strongly about, I might debate it. I like a good debate.

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
Mar 19th '13

Nope. I like to give my opinion and move on. BUT when someone quotes me and attacks my opinion, then I do feel the need to defend myself.but in that case their the one who obviously feels the need to make everyone have their opinion