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    • That's inconsiderate of him. -- Votes: 44
    • Calm down... it's not that serious. -- Votes: 75
Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
Mar 9th '13
Quoting kthx.:" He said I'm controlling, and the fact that he HAD to come home and ask me if he could go out if bullshit. ... [snip!] ... bullshit. Woah... I didn't MAKE him come home. I knew nothing of these tattoo plans until HE came home on his own free-will."


I have really irrational feelings when it comes to my s/o and him wanting to go out if I had already planned on him being home with me. It shouldn't piss me off but it does and I like need to sit down and count to ten. :lol:



I don't know, I know it's stupid but, I understand where you're coming from.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
Mar 9th '13
Quoting kthx.:" This is what I had planned on doing tonight. I'm tired.. I had gotten 2 hours of sleep last night before work. I'm still tired. I wanted to spend a night with him. "


I mean. I get being bummed out, I do. .. but FUMING PISSED OFF seems like an overreaction, and then it going so far as turning into a fight is a bit juvenile. Like I said, if it were me, I'd put the crock on low and go have some drinks or something with a friend.

kthx. TTC since Mar 2016; 1 child; Harrison, OH, United States 69890 posts
Mar 9th '13
Quoting Mayhem.:" I wouldn't be pissed, but it'd make me sad. I'd talk to him about it, but I wouldn't make a big deal of it. I'd just tell him how I feel and explain why I was disappointed. "


That's more of what I am.... disappointed. Of course I didn't slave over a meal. But he's lucky I even made ANYTHING. I was dead tired when I came home... but decided to throw together what I could before passing out so that he didn't have to eat chili dip or a chicken patty for dinner :roll:

Elle&Cole⛄️ TTC since Oct 2016; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 32456 posts
Mar 9th '13

I'd be happy to eat it all myself; he's also Being inconsiderate

May♥ Due December 29; 1 child; Texas 9207 posts
Mar 9th '13

Me being your friend and knowing how shit has been lately I think you have every right to be upset. :(

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
Mar 9th '13
Quoting kthx.:" That's more of what I am.... disappointed. Of course I didn't slave over a meal. But he's lucky I even ... [snip!] ... to throw together what I could before passing out so that he didn't have to eat chili dip or a chicken patty for dinner :roll:"


More of an effort than I put in half the time.



Oh you're hungry? There's frozen pizza in the freezer.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
Mar 9th '13
Quoting kthx.:" He's still home. In the bedroom. Moping like a 5 year old."

That's the part that would drive me insane, no point in staying home and then moping/whining.

Sofie+#2 2 kids; Sheffield, So, United Kingdom 7799 posts
Mar 9th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" He said I'm controlling, and the fact that he HAD to come home and ask me if he could go out if bullshit. ... [snip!] ... bullshit. Woah... I didn't MAKE him come home. I knew nothing of these tattoo plans until HE came home on his own free-will."</blockquote>




That's dumb. It's polite to tell you his plans: I've JUST managed to get SO to let me know when he's working late or staying at work for a drink.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Mar 9th '13
Quoting kthx.:" That's more of what I am.... disappointed. Of course I didn't slave over a meal. But he's lucky I even ... [snip!] ... to throw together what I could before passing out so that he didn't have to eat chili dip or a chicken patty for dinner :roll:"


I mean...you don't normally make dinner?
So this is like, an abnormal occurrence? :lol: If so, I'd pretty much expect him to have planned on being home for it.

Turtley Mikey Due October 31; 2 kids; California 50611 posts
Mar 9th '13

It's just kinda, eh.... I wouldn't be too upset. Gotta learn to pick your battles.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Mar 9th '13

I legit think he just wants to have reasons to fight until he finally feels justified enough to leave. Because he's just been being a prick and it's childish and really stupid.

kthx. TTC since Mar 2016; 1 child; Harrison, OH, United States 69890 posts
Mar 9th '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" Its possible that its a little bit of inconsideration. Did you tell him that you were looking forward ... [snip!] ... out say I want to spend time with you tonight, please dont make any plans, I'm fixing dinner it will be ready at X o'clock."


Yeah, I did. He got out of the shower and saw me on the computer (I had been lying down in bed). He was like... You're not tired now? I said I am, but I was looking for a recipe for dinner. Wouldn't you like dinner tonight? And he laughed and said yeah I guess so.




He knew I was making dinner for us tonight. And now his excuse for wanting to leave is that I need to do dishes, laundry, and clean... so he doesn't want to sit here bored. WAIT. I have to do what?!

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
Mar 9th '13
Quoting kthx.:" Yeah, I did. He got out of the shower and saw me on the computer (I had been lying down in bed). He ... [snip!] ... to leave is that I need to do dishes, laundry, and clean... so he doesn't want to sit here bored. WAIT. I have to do what?!"


.......and you're with him on purpose :oops:



<333

user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
Mar 9th '13

yikes ---- yeah i'd say you're being pretty friggin crazy, LOL!



its a few things in a crock pot -- not a full 5 course dinner that you slaved away at all day.



you had to eat dinner anyway, its easier enough to heat up later.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
Mar 9th '13
Quoting kthx.:" Yeah, I did. He got out of the shower and saw me on the computer (I had been lying down in bed). He ... [snip!] ... to leave is that I need to do dishes, laundry, and clean... so he doesn't want to sit here bored. WAIT. I have to do what?!"


The f**k? Why isn't he helping with any of that?