Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16080 posts
Feb 27th '13
Quoting Legendary Yermom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Robert Downey Jr.:</b>" Idk. That's just what I was told. ... [snip!] ... told no, of course But, now, being 27 with 4...if they denied me because I don't have both sexes, there would be some drama"

I didn't argue much because I was 20 when I asked but my thing is, I have 2 kids. Of each sex. I'm almost 22. I know I don't want anymore. I have been saying that since I had DD. They are too expensive. I just want these two and I want to be able to give them everything. If I have another kid, we don't make enough to keep that up. And I don't feel that they should go without because I popped another kid out.

Plus I feel like our family is complete. I can't even picture another child.

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
Feb 27th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nigel Thornberry:</b>" I know a woman who has never wanted children and her husband feels the same way but her doctor won't give her a tubal until she's 30, it's ridiculous. "</blockquote>

I have a friend who never wanted kids, she got pregnant on the pill and using condoms and have her daughter up for adoption cause she didn't believe in abortion past 12 weeks and she found out at 14 wks.
She is pregnant now again (also a BC baby) and keeping it, not because she's changed her mind about not wanting kids but she said it hurt placing her daughter and she can't go through that again so she has no other choice.
I feel so bad for her because she would have had her tubes tied ASAP if there were restrictions. Then she wouldn't have to deal with any of this.

Amber Nicole!! Due April 1 (boy); 1 child; Ohio 2 posts
Feb 27th '13

Im 23 and my second child is due April 2 my doctor said he just prefers you wait to get fixed until this one is over a year old and i live in ohio.

Blair Nealey 2 kids; Darlington, South Carolina 312 posts
Feb 27th '13

I know in SC the age is 21 so ask your OB. When I went in for my very first appointment they asked me if I wanted my tubes tied and before they could write it down in my chart they had to make sure I would be 21 after I had the baby.

mom2hailey&leah&aria 3 kids; Florida 1280 posts
Feb 28th '13
Quoting Legendary Yermom:" Usually it's like 25 or 3+ kids"


*Kyle&Chase'sMommy; Due October 5 (girl); 2 kids; Georgia 8 posts
Feb 28th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amarra's Mommy.:</b>" oh okay. lol wellll Im feeling like it'll be a big fat no for me. I'll only be 21 when this one is born."</blockquote>

I live in GA and my doctor said I could at 21...and I have two boys

kaykayz Due March 12 (girl); 2 kids; Edmonton, Alberta 53 posts
Feb 28th '13

I beleive u just need to have 3 or more children, I know my mom had hers done right after her third, and so did two of my friends had theres done recently.