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Boobo&bugs 2 kids; Simpsonville, South Carolina 8124 posts
Feb 26th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting LynMarie.xo:</b>" have the father! the kid will learn when they are older not to be like them in the bad ways if you are ... [snip!] ... thing bc the dad is bad so it will spark the child to be anything but bc they dont want to be like that... just my opinion."</blockquote>




If that's true than why do so many men from single parent households end up in prison?

Nameless Ghoul 2 kids; Sweden 6452 posts
Feb 26th '13

Bad father is worse. You can at least have good male role models in the place of no father.

✨Kati✨ Due May 20; 1 child; Memphis, TN, United States 3218 posts
Feb 26th '13

Bad father is WORSE.

LynMarie.xo Due January 18 (boy); Ontario 113 posts
Feb 26th '13
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" that's not true. they could see that as acceptable behavior... "


they cooould but if the mom is a good parent and makes sure to raise her child with good morals and thinking it would most likely not be the case and if they do take after the father and were raised more with the mother it would most likely be jsut a fase and theyd come back to what they know is right.

☠Jenniefahhh 1 child; Djibouti 70810 posts
Feb 26th '13
Quoting LynMarie.xo:" have the father! the kid will learn when they are older not to be like them in the bad ways if you are ... [snip!] ... thing bc the dad is bad so it will spark the child to be anything but bc they dont want to be like that... just my opinion."


Did you have a dad? Do your kid/s have their dad?

A-2 Due June 14; 2 kids; Zimbabwe 6884 posts
Feb 26th '13

Bad father is worse. Id rather my daughter have one good example, then one good and one bad example.

☠Jenniefahhh 1 child; Djibouti 70810 posts
Feb 26th '13
Quoting Glo♥:" Well depends on what you mean by bad father. As in abusive (physically, emotionally, and/or sexually) or a dead beat that never gave a f**k?"


How is a dead beat dad that never gave a f**k any different from emotionally abusive?

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
Feb 26th '13

I'd so much rather be raising a child on my own than raising one with a bad father.

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18065 posts
Feb 26th '13
Quoting LynMarie.xo:" they cooould but if the mom is a good parent and makes sure to raise her child with good morals and ... [snip!] ... father and were raised more with the mother it would most likely be jsut a fase and theyd come back to what they know is right."


You need to do some serious research in child development then. The numbers don't lie, more men end up in prison from single mother households than from any other family type. By your logic, that wouldn't be the case.

LynMarie.xo Due January 18 (boy); Ontario 113 posts
Feb 26th '13
Quoting ☠Jenniefahhh:" Did you have a dad? Do your kid/s have their dad?"


why do you ask?? yes i have a dad as we all have a male sperm doner lol. yes my boy has a dad. but really why do u want 2 know?

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18065 posts
Feb 26th '13
Quoting Thisperyears:" I'd so much rather be raising a child on my own than raising one with a bad father. "


DD's father is a terrible person. I'm glad he doesn't want shit to do with her. Instead she has an awesome male figure in my SO and male relatives.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
Feb 26th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amber :]:</b>" I would say yes. I didn't have a father, but many good father figures. I'm pretty okay with it. I have ... [snip!] ... pretty okay with it. I have cousins that have a pretty bad father, and I'm in fear that they'll become cerial killers. :shock:"</blockquote>




Well you can't control their grocery habits. :lol:



And i say a bad father is worse.

✨Kati✨ Due May 20; 1 child; Memphis, TN, United States 3218 posts
Feb 26th '13
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" You need to do some serious research in child development then. The numbers don't lie, more men end ... [snip!] ... men end up in prison from single mother households than from any other family type. By your logic, that wouldn't be the case. "

:D

LynMarie.xo Due January 18 (boy); Ontario 113 posts
Feb 26th '13
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" You need to do some serious research in child development then. The numbers don't lie, more men end ... [snip!] ... men end up in prison from single mother households than from any other family type. By your logic, that wouldn't be the case. "


um im confuesd if its asingle mother household and their ending up in jail then wont u be advocating they are raised with the bad father rather than jsut a single mom lol?

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
Feb 26th '13
Quoting LynMarie.xo:" um im confuesd if its asingle mother household and their ending up in jail then wont u be advocating they are raised with the bad father rather than jsut a single mom lol?"


Your arguments are the ones not making sense. I can't even understand half of what you're trying to say.