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Cast Your Vote:

    • keep the stuff and let him ruin it -- Votes: 9
    • exchange it for stuff he can actually wear and get use out of -- Votes: 8
Good Queen Bess Due December 27; 2 kids; Ontario 49564 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" for the courts"


Judges aren't stupid. They know that someone buying their kid expensive pants doesn't make up for being an absentee or negligent parent.



Have you considered counseling for your obvious anger issues and your over-attachment to your child?

☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
Feb 25th '13

Okay so here is the thing. Yes your BD is an a*****e. I agree. No he doens't see Marc as much as he should. But honestly when he does come around let Marc enjoy it. Let him buy him whatever and if it's something that can be used then use it. If it's something to big let him grow into it, if it's completely unreasonable exchange it.
You both are adults and you need to co-parent Marc. If he isn't going to come around as often as he should okay whatever, then just keep parenting Marc, when he doesn't let Marc go, but bad mouthing him and being an ass back isn't going to help because Marc is ultimately the one who is going to suffer.
Yeah I was pissed when Jamison's dad bought the complete wrong size for his stuff for Christmas but then I thought about it and I was like it could be worst. He could not help at all be no where to be found. And Jamison had a ball with his daddy and grandparents and step mom. He doesn't get to see them a lot and I get to enjoy him basically every day. Jamison doesn't give a shit about clothes or shoes. He rather be naked. So I just got him the exact same shoes in a different size. Just do something like that.
You're going to have come to a common ground of Marc may hate you for pushing his daddy away or hate you both when he gets older.

MonkeyMel 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 26624 posts
status Feb 25th '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" he claims he did pick them out and thats why he picked out cloths likehis dads work cloths. either way ... [snip!] ... instructions and hes 37 w 3 kids. screw calming down hes better off out of the pic for what little coming and going he does"


It sounds like he had a nice day with his son and you're trying to think of anyway to ruin and belittle it.

talexys 1 child; Ontario 1235 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" its more than that. lack of atten. he does nothing. if you tale your son w you how can the cloths be ... [snip!] ... can the cloths be too big? like just common sense everything is half assed so he might as well not bother its all or nothing"


Well obviously your anger goes way deeper then the clothes. My spouse bought our new born a 3-6 month outfit for her new born photo shoot. Some men, don't have that common sense. I didnt get mad at him though because it was cute that he tried.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Judges aren't stupid. They know that someone buying their kid expensive pants doesn't make up for being ... [snip!] ... or negligent parent. Have you considered counseling for your obvious anger issues and your over-attachment to your child?"


as i wait for the courts its hard not to be so angry.its alwasy a run around. i just wish i didnt have to deal w him ever again



i have no choice but to be over atached. its always been just me and him. we were married and for over a yr he did nothing. while pregnant he wasnt there . all he cares about is his work. he never in his has raised any of his kids and i hate the fact that hes superman to my son when im bustig my ass to keep his life as it was before his father destroyed it.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting Colt's mommy:" It sounds like he had a nice day with his son and you're trying to think of anyway to ruin and belittle it. "


he spent the weekend spo8iled him and babies him rotten then sent him home w cloths that didnt fit and an all time high atttitude def not ok oh and a huge bag of candy and told him its to eat at home wtf

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Judges aren't stupid. They know that someone buying their kid expensive pants doesn't make up for being ... [snip!] ... or negligent parent. Have you considered counseling for your obvious anger issues and your over-attachment to your child?"

the first time its cute everytime it gets old

Daniee 2 kids; 1 angel baby; South Hill, WA, United States 4855 posts
Feb 25th '13

Where to start!



First of all School clothes technically are considered nice clothes, then you put play clothes on when you get home.



It seems like his father was wanting to make his little boy happy and let him pick his clothes out. It's adorable that he wanted to dress like his dad.



I get getting upset over hair but did you think once that the barber didn't do it right?
That shit happens all the damn time!
You are filled with hate towards this man so you do not even take the time to notice what good he is doing.



Get over it, don't try and take his father from him! Seriously how pathetic is that. You sound jealous and bitter.



Yes boys get dirty but that doesn't mean they shouldn't own nice clothes and also he bought him nice name brand shit and your complaining like he got your son clothes from Walmart or a thrift store. He spend good money, his money on his kid. He can buy what he wants, he doesn't have to buy what you tell him to buy.
Grow up before you ruin your kids life.

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" You sound crazy."



:lol:



True story.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Aries Baby:</b>" as i wait for the courts its hard not ... [snip!] ... your life? Did he rape you? You seem to have resentment towards him. No matter what he does, it will never be enough for you."


lets see he ruined my credit put me in 15k in debt promised me a home after making me give up my apt that i could afford and moved me to a home i couldnt afford when he up and left bc he was stealing money from my son and myself to party. he ruined orr family and he can go f**k off im not fixing his mistakes nor sugar coating his f**king moronic ways

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting Honey & Toto:" Where to start! First of all School clothes technically are considered nice clothes, then you put play ... [snip!] ... on his kid. He can buy what he wants, he doesn't have to buy what you tell him to buy. Grow up before you ruin your kids life."


my son doesnt wear hkakis its not what he wants its hwat he needs. jeans a tshirts not work cloths like daddy whos bastard ass doesnt provide shit w all his working hours pay. simple directions either follow them or f**k off. my son lives how i want him to not how some bastard who parties every night wants him to live

☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" my son doesnt wear hkakis its not what he wants its hwat he needs. jeans a tshirts not work cloths ... [snip!] ... either follow them or f**k off. my son lives how i want him to not how some bastard who parties every night wants him to live"


Stop it....

Good Queen Bess Due December 27; 2 kids; Ontario 49564 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" the first time its cute everytime it gets old"


Honestly, your attitude isn't cute either.



In fact, if I was him, I wouldn't come around if I had to deal with you either.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting Honey & Toto:" Where to start! First of all School clothes technically are considered nice clothes, then you put play ... [snip!] ... on his kid. He can buy what he wants, he doesn't have to buy what you tell him to buy. Grow up before you ruin your kids life."


and i would of prefered wwalmart shirts and stuf since its for daycare which means hes outside in the dort messing it up

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
Feb 25th '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Honestly, your attitude isn't cute either. In fact, if I was him, I wouldn't come around if I had to deal with you either."


he doesnt have to not my loss. my attitude is a product of his actions